re: Pro-Choicers would have their daughters abort their pregnanc

Quoting mjgonz:" He shouldn't have to apologize. Anyone who gets a tattoo should have to apologize to the church to since ... [snip!] ... to the church to since it clearly states in the Bible that you aren't supposed to tattoo your body. Markings of any sort."

He had to apologize when he cheated on a test in school, too... if he had a tattoo the congregation would probably help pay for that removal and hold him down while it was being done! lmao

This isn't my church, he was a kid in my brother's class.

Quoting mjgonz:" He shouldn't have to apologize. Anyone who gets a tattoo should have to apologize to the church to since ... [snip!] ... to the church to since it clearly states in the Bible that you aren't supposed to tattoo your body. Markings of any sort."

I have NEVER apologized for getting pregnant out of wedlock. My dad has mentioned a few times that his daughters(my sister and I) have never apologized for giving them a hard time. I never gave them a hard time, I was a working teen, I did my school work, I cleaned the house... but I had a boyfriend in secret(they were weird about me dating) and got pregnant with my wonderful daughter... I'll never apologize. Had they not been so weird about me liking guys, I wouldn't have been rebellious. DH even tried asking for permission to date me, he called a few times and when they found out he was four years older than me(and saw his picture), they told him no. But they let me date this other guy before him who was the SAME age, all because he looked like a little boy. That guy was weird, really mean, pressured me, forced me, was bi polar and a total schizo. DH pretty much rescued me from that guy.

I think, I hope... that if my parents could do it over again, they would have handled things differently. But I think they were both raised in a funky way that made them weird about sex, dating, the opposite sex..in general.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mjgonz:</b>" Lol if you're pro-choice, you can't FORCE your daughter to abort. Kind of being a hypocrite for being so pro-choice."</blockquote>




That's like saying you can't be pro-choice if you vaccinate.

Parents can make medical decisions for their CHILDREN and still support a WOMAN'S right to choose.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" "She smurfed up her life... not my fault. She better pull her big girl panties up and if she cannot ... [snip!] ... kept her legs closed." Yeah, people are screwed up. I honestly think some women say this stuff on here to get rise out of us!"

I could never turn my back on my kid. Like ever. If he murdered a smurf load of people, he'd still be my son & I'd still stand by him.
I guess, some people are capable of unconditional love & some people aren't.

I wouldn't be thrilled if my hypothetical daughter came home pregnant, but I'd get over it & do whatever she wanted. I would expect her to do most of the work, though.

Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mjgonz:</b>" Lol if you're pro-choice, you can't FORCE your ... [snip!] ... if you vaccinate. Parents can make medical decisions for their CHILDREN and still support a WOMAN'S right to choose."

If your child is old enough to have sex, they should be able to have some sort of say in what happens with their body..

Quoting WindowSilAngel:" I am pro life, but just have to get a point across about other pro lifers. Pro life people preach so ... [snip!] ... when they become pregnant...yet... they want the person to keep the baby. Just a little thought. Hope it made sense."

Thats really sad.

I was brought up in a Christian home, I was 22 when I got pregnant with DD (out of wedlock) and THANKFULLY my parents were completely supportive. My mother is a pastor. The church ladies threw a baby shower for me!

<blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" If your child is old enough to have sex, they should be able to have some sort of say in what happens with their body.."</blockquote>




Assuming the pregnancy wad the result of conventual sex.

A 10-14 year old is not old enough to understand the consequences of sex, much less of carrying to term.