appt is tomorrow........

i have my medical abortion scheduled for tomorrow at 11.. i'm so nervous and scared, i've felt like passing out all morning. i tried talking to the baby's father about all of this.. doesn't really seem like he cares what i'm going through, just as long as it's done. he's been nothing but a jerk since i told him i was pregnant over a month ago.. i tried talking to my friends about it, but i know it's hard to understand how i'm feeling since they've never been in this position. heck, i don't even understand how i'm feeling.

i know i'm doing the right thing for me.. i just can't help feeling like this is the worst decision i'm ever going to make. i just dont really see any other options..

so.. anyone who has some spare time, say a prayer for me tomorrow if ya get a chance.. i think i'm going to need all of them i can. thanks!

Ill keep you in my thoughts. If you need to talk <3 I am here. <3

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Ill keep you in my thoughts. If you need to talk <3 I am here. <3 "

thank you  

You're in my prayers hon.
Don't let anyone get you down over this, and just like Yurvette, I'm around if you ever wanna talk <3

Good luck, I will keep you in my thoughts. Try and stay strong 

It's normal to be scared.. But you are choosing what feels like the best option for you.

I know how difficult it can be, before and after. If you need to talk about anything (the procedure itself, how you're feeling, etc.), you can send a PM my way. I'm more than happy to talk.  

I will be thinking of you tomorrow, dear. Be strong.

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hey im sorry for what you are going through but i can tell you one thing... i had an abortion last year and i felt the same way as youre feeling right now. we know that its the best decision and deep in our hearts we know its wrong, but honestly i dont know your situation but for me i did feel bad doing it myself but in the end i know i did the right thing its been over a year since my abortion i still feel bad that i did it but i still firmly believe that it was the best decision

Quoting klorraine89:" i have my medical abortion scheduled for tomorrow at 11.. i'm so nervous and scared, i've felt like passing ... [snip!] ... who has some spare time, say a prayer for me tomorrow if ya get a chance.. i think i'm going to need all of them i can. thanks!"

If you're unsure, wait. Don't let someone else pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. You should make the decision that is what YOU want to do, not someone else. You're the one who has to live with the choice you make and if you're already feeling this is possibly the worst decision you're going to make...cancel the appointment and take a few more days to think about it. You may change your mind. After tomorrow's appointment, there is no going back.

A thread that might help you on AS is:
http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about548230.html

Quoting klorraine89:" i have my medical abortion scheduled for tomorrow at 11.. i'm so nervous and scared, i've felt like passing ... [snip!] ... who has some spare time, say a prayer for me tomorrow if ya get a chance.. i think i'm going to need all of them i can. thanks!"

I never been the type to dwell on my abortions; because at the end of the day I know why I had to do them and I felt like that was more important. I know I could tell you all day not to be hurt or sad, but I can't. Just know you are doing it for you and for the future babies you will be blessed with. You could be in a better situation, with a MAN and a more stable life down the line. Life is a bitch, but you gotta get thru the bitchy times to get to the better times. And know you aren't selfish....cause your doing whats best for you. For a child to come into a world like that will be hurtful to him or her and you as well because you will always have to explain and wonder why yourself as to why he can't be there or just do what he needs to. You shouldnt have to answer for another grown person who made the choice to have unprotected sex just like you ( if thats the case ) in the end. He isn't worried bout you, the baby and how your feel and the only person that will is YOU!