Quoting Kimber-Lily:" TTC with a person you haven't been with for very long is stupid
I dont think the idea if too far fetched though. a lot of people have done it.
Quoting Tavi:" I wouldn't do it. You need to give it a lot more time. Seriously....enjoy your life. Enjoy pissing by ... [snip!] ... Enjoy being care free.....no responsibilities. Also....get on BC. Just continue dating, but don't try for a baby so soon. "
Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-Lily:</b>" TTC with a person you haven't been with for ... [snip!] ... first date with my so. It's smurfed everything up. Too much stress on a budding relationship. Forget being 17 smurfing years old!"Same here, one night stand with my now SO and I had gotten pregnant (at 1 . Our relationship is tough and we see each other everyday.
Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" LOL @ pissing by yourself with juggling toys and wiping asses! Totally made my night!"
Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" I already lived the military life and it's very different. OP- most guys like that who are in the military ... [snip!] ... you wouldnt mind feeling like a single mom. Basically, you will be taken care of, but dont expect much help raising the baby."
Quoting AnnGiggles:" It sounds really difficult and that is what is stopping me the most. I jus don't wanna regret anything you know? And thank you for your reply "
Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" Here is something else to think about... Does he plan on marrying you? If he marries you, you can get ... [snip!] ... you and the baby, etc. How would your parents feel about you getting pregnant at 17? How would they feel if you moved away?"
Quoting AnnGiggles:" He has already asked the question, he is jus waiting for my reply. My mom doesn't really care what I ... [snip!] ... like an adult since I was 16. I already told her that I am planning on moving out with in a month and she is jus fine with it."