re: Im fed up of this smurfing guy.

sooo much better!  
lol. there is a time to get off the high horse.


I don't get why she is so partial to the OP. the OP posted this talking crap about her baby's father. kick the pothead out then! that's not forbidding him from seeing his child after birth? & at that point, maybe the kicking out, & the birth of his child will finally make him pull his head out of his ass & start supporting his family, instead of spending his whole paycheck on himself. & if he does end up coming around, & becoming a MAN. . then, at that point, maybe they could talk about him moving back in.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittney Nichols:</b>" I have the same problem! all my BD wants to do is spend his money on beer or smurf he doesn't need... it's ridiculous! "</blockquote>

I'd say bye-bye until someone puts their big boy panties on.
your child's necessities come before his needs, period.


just throwing that out there.

Quoting Brittney Nichols:" I have the same problem! all my BD wants to do is spend his money on beer or smurf he doesn't need... it's ridiculous! "

Why tolerate it? It can't feel good having you and your child's needs put under whatever he wants. Is that really someone you want to be with forever?

Smurf, open your eyes ladies. Figure out the difference between a man and man-child.

Quoting that.CALIFORNIA.smile™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brittney Nichols:</b>" I have the same problem! all my BD wants ... [snip!] ... puts their big boy panties on. your child's necessities come before his needs, period. just throwing that out there."

exactly.
my SO smokes, but ALWAYS makes sure his children, and even me for that matter, have what we need AND want. I've been very "needy" this pregnancy (more wants than needs, but wanty sounds weird, lol)
and he'll always go out and get what I ask for before thinking of himself. I'm a pain in the ass, I know, and am so grateful that he hasn't gotten tired of me yet.

Well if your "Fed up with this smurfing guy" they have free room and board in jail. Call the cops on him. IMO i'd never stay with a guy like that. and if he spent money like that before getting pregnant, it probably won't change.

<blockquote><b>Quoting DaniLaLaLa:</b>" Well if your "Fed up with this smurfing guy" they have free room and board in jail. Call the cops on him. ... [snip!] ... IMO i'd never stay with a guy like that. and if he spent money like that before getting pregnant, it probably won't change."</blockquote>




Jail? Really?

Quoting DaniLaLaLa:" Well if your "Fed up with this smurfing guy" they have free room and board in jail. Call the cops on him. ... [snip!] ... IMO i'd never stay with a guy like that. and if he spent money like that before getting pregnant, it probably won't change."

Great idea. Give him a criminal record which will follow him the rest of his life.

Hahahaha! Oh yeah I'm very immature because I have a different point off view and you lot don't like it because you've smurfed up by getting pregnant with someone who would beat you? I'd suggest getting too know someone before having their child, tends too help and my bubble won't burst anytime soon thanks, been with my partner for 4 years and I have knew him since I was 5 - had one disagreement in all that time and my child's life is perfect! Atleast he doesn't have a judge mental mother! God help the day when your child wants your support on something that doesn't match your lifestyle! Bunch of smurfing idiots! The smurf that use are coming out with is sizzling my brain you smurfing mong!

Reading ur post makes my head hurt please just stop already or learn some decent grammar chloe

Quoting Chloe Jones  :" Hahahaha! Oh yeah I'm very immature because I have a different point off view and you lot don't like ... you've smurfed up by getting pregnant with someone who would beat you?[snip!] ... match your lifestyle! Bunch of smurfing idiots! The smurf that use are coming out with is sizzling my brain you smurfing mong!"

Hate to tell you princess, but I was married for 2 1/2 years before we had our son. And guess what, I STILL think you're full of it. Of all the things you've said, I could turn around and say this to you, "You really should have kept your legs closed and not had a child out of wedlock." That's what I believe is right, but I'm not here trying to beat you or anyone over the head with it, am I?

As for the being judgmental, which is ONE word, and spelled j-u-d-g-m-e-n-t-a-l, the way you've stated it is like a mentally unstable court judge, not the same meaning, none of them are judging you. You're the one sitting here criticizing them and insulting them. I can honestly say, pretty much all of us couldn't care less that you had a child with whom you did, and how you want to raise them. However, when you come in here and insult a woman for trying to protect herself and her child from a man that turns out to be a monster, that's what people are upset about. And no, I didn't come from a broken home, so I'm not damaged like you may claim. My parents were married for 4 almost 5 years before I was born, and still are after 32 years.

Quoting Chloe Jones  :" Hahahaha! Oh yeah I'm very immature because I have a different point off view and you lot don't like ... [snip!] ... match your lifestyle! Bunch of smurfing idiots! The smurf that use are coming out with is sizzling my brain you smurfing mong!"

Seriously?
Where did I say he beat me? I'm pretty sure there's more than one of abuse. And I knew him for four years before I got pregnant.
None of this was even hinted until I found out I was pregnant.

No one here is judging you, you're the one judging single moms saying our kids won't be happy because they're from "broken homes."
My parents split up when I was a baby, and I'm thankful I didn't grow up around them arguing and constantly being pissed off at each other.

You're the one sitting here talking smurf about me for being a single mom with an abusive ex. Assuming I barely knew him before I got pregnant, when I knew him for years.

Hopefully, you never have a daughter who ends up in my position. I can definitely see you telling her to stay with him for the kids and if she chooses not to you'd give her hell.

Again, you're a judgmental twat.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Hate to tell you princess, but I was married for 2 1/2 years before we had our son. And guess what, ... [snip!] ... not damaged like you may claim. My parents were married for 4 almost 5 years before I was born, and still are after 32 years."

Love you<3

Quoting Chloe Jones  :" Hahahaha! Oh yeah I'm very immature because I have a different point off view and you lot don't like ... [snip!] ... match your lifestyle! Bunch of smurfing idiots! The smurf that use are coming out with is sizzling my brain you smurfing mong!"

the end.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Love you<3"

  love you too!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Nesbitt:</b>" the end."</blockquote>




hahaha