Quoting 19uk:" For a year my boyfriend was asking me to get pregnant, I kept saying no as we had a miscarriage the year ... [snip!] ... going to stop the drugs for her? Or do I go with my better judgement and tell him he's 9 months too late. Please please help."
Ever one deserves a chance; but in your case its up to you to use better judgement. Meaning give him the chance to come around but set your boundaries and always have yourself prepared for future upset. I am not saying that he will prove you right, but in the end your daughter deserves the chance; but if he doesn't take this chance 100% wholeheartedly then you know what to do, but like I said have yourself ready because in the end if it doesn't work out the way you plain you won't have time to be sad and down while you have that baby needing you. Always remember things may have not happen how you planned before and maybe after, but your lil DD will always need you, give you the love and support you need. Don't let him take your sunshine either way!