Quoting hi puddin:" So I got dumped 2 days ago for very selfish reasons. He wants I our 3 year old and 3 month old every ... [snip!] ... do.. I'm a mother of 4...looking for a job for a year plus now and I don't trust daycares here and my family isn't available..."
It would probably be required that he tell you where he lives.. My ex was ordered to tell me where my daughter would be.. And if we go out of the county we have to inform each other.
As far as because your breast feeding, they may only let the little one say with you full time since your other children are much older.
As far as child support, it depends on how much each of you have and how much income you each make.