Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:" How can it be harmful? I do agree with you on the whole if you say you won't do something you need to honor it."
Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:" I agree that if its not something you talked about before marriage then it can become trickier on what ... [snip!] ... trickier on what should be done...however if you did talk about it and agreed not to then you need to honor that commitment..."
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I love porn, SO knows that and doesn't ask me not to watch it. He doesn't like to watch it... oh well. ... [snip!] ... demand that their spouse never watch it or look at other woman.... talking about it and demanding are two different things. "