re: PORNOGRAPHY!!!

Quoting she nan igans:" The problem is, what it a valid reason? "You can't talk to that man because he's better looking then ... [snip!] ... A demand is a demand. Now you say you'd want to talk about it and find a reason, but then you don't just accept demands."

I agree with everything you ever post.... blah,.... you are so articulate!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Twin's Mommy:</b>" If you demand he not watch... It's only ... [snip!] ... it of each other..he doesn't want it in the house any more than I do..demanding it of each other has not made it taboo for us"</blockquote>



If neither of you want it I wouldn't consider it demanding. That a mutual agreement IMO

Quoting Katie. [♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" I don't have a very high sex drive, ... [snip!] ... wouldn't want to be with someone who would cheat if they wasn't watching porn. It's hard to explain what I'm trying to say lol"

No! I totally understand what you are saying, and I don't think I could be with someone who NEEDED porno or sex, but...I'm not against it. I'd feel bad about forbidding him to not watch porn when I have such a low sex drive.  

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" SO is a paramedic and firefighter, the guys watch it at the station sometimes and I know he is in the ... [snip!] ... watch better porn but it doesn't work! lmao We are going to have to make a video for him to enjoy watching it i think! lmao"

SOs a deputy sheriff, so I know it's been on at their station sometimes, too. We made videos before, on my phone, and then it had problems & I had to return it to the store... And I forgot to delete them. Now we only use the camera! When we watch it's always like "how does she get her leg there?" or "why is he making that horrible face"?

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" See, and that's the thing. If a person doesn't like porn, they should FIND someone who also does not ... [snip!] ... doesn't drink, then PICK a man who doesn't drink. Don't assume to change a man into what you want. They are men, not projects."</blockquote>



I agree with this that is why I stressed it needs to be something you agree upon before you commit to each other

Quoting Katie. [♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... it taboo for us"</blockquote> If neither of you want it I wouldn't consider it demanding. That a mutual agreement IMO"

:!.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" No! I totally understand what you are saying, and I don't think I could be with someone who NEEDED porno ... [snip!] ... or sex, but...I'm not against it. I'd feel bad about forbidding him to not watch porn when I have such a low sex drive.  "</blockquote>



Yeah I agree. As long as he didn't NEED it to be faithful.

Quoting Twin's Mommy:" SOs a deputy sheriff, so I know it's been on at their station sometimes, too. We made videos before, ... [snip!] ... use the camera! When we watch it's always like "how does she get her leg there?" or "why is he making that horrible face"?"

LMAO at the porn phone and returning it!!


Yeah, if SO walks in when I'm watching porn he laughs and shakes his head "how can you watch that.... OMG that's so fake! .... He looks like a perv! .... omg she isn't hot at all!"

He is a kill joy!  

Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" See, and that's the thing. If a person ... [snip!] ... I agree with this that is why I stressed it needs to be something you agree upon before you commit to each other"

It's kind of my fault this turned into "demand" post. I said earlier talking about it is fine, but I hate when people demand instead of talking about it.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" LMAO at the porn phone and returning it!! Yeah, if SO walks in when I'm watching porn he laughs and ... [snip!] ... can you watch that.... OMG that's so fake! .... He looks like a perv! .... omg she isn't hot at all!" He is a kill joy!   "

It was embarrassing. I asked if they watch the videos & he said they didn't, but the look on his face was telling me he'd seen me & my SO naked. Tell him to let you have your fun! lol

Quoting Twin's Mommy:" It was embarrassing. I asked if they watch the videos & he said they didn't, but the look on his face was telling me he'd seen me & my SO naked. Tell him to let you have your fun! lol"

oh he does... he knows if I watch porn he is going to have fun too    I don't masturbate to it unless SO isn't home... I just use it to help me get turned on sometimes. I'm a visual person.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" oh he does... he knows if I watch porn he is going to have fun too    I don't masturbate to it unless SO isn't home... I just use it to help me get turned on sometimes. I'm a visual person. "

I'm easy. It doesn't take much to turn me on.. SO can say go get naked, and I'm ready.

Quoting Twin's Mommy:" I'm easy. It doesn't take much to turn me on.. SO can say go get naked, and I'm ready."

ugh... I used to be that way, but pregnancy is making me feel all insecure about my body..   Before, as self centered as this sounds, just the look of my own naked body could turn me on! LMAO

Here is am example of things we demand from each other...no abuse, respect for each others feelings, no cheating, no drugs that sort of thing, things that would harm out family

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" :!."</blockquote>




Lol. I was like umm I'm failing to see the demanding part here.