Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Does that go the other way too then? Is ... [snip!] ... if he were to say..you can't eat preaches anymore and had no valid reason as to why just because he said so then of course not."
The problem is, what it a valid reason?
"You can't talk to that man because he's better looking then me, and it makes me jealous." Is that okay? If so, because you want your husband happy, how long until that can go into you can't speak to ANY men?
You can't watch porn. Soon that turns into you can't watch movies that have any nudity. Next nothing with sensual scenes, or books with love scenes. Why? Because it makes HIM uncomfortable.
See the problem? That puts a single persons wants and needs above their partners. It means that the partner is the one whose feelings matter. Instead why not sit down and address the issue. Come to a compromise and figure out what to do instead of "he doesn't want me to and I love him so I wont."
Also, demands on their own don't require reasons. A demand is a demand. Now you say you'd want to talk about it and find a reason, but then you don't just accept demands.