Quoting BigBabyBoy:" Yeah we do I had minor back labor (or what I thought was back labor) I couldnt even call him, ... [snip!] ... even call him, it hit me then that I was really alone in this. Just not 100% sure how to handle things with him at the moment,"
Not knowing your situation with BD I can't exactly give the best advice for dealing with him... but I'd say turn to your mom, dad or whatever family member you are closest with when things come up that you would normally tell BD.
I know even being married and madly in love with my husband I still end up turning to my mom more than him, since she's been through this 3 times before and can give better advice and calm me down better than him (since when I tell him I'm in pain/ feel contractions/ whatever I end up having to calm him down)