Quoting Mrs cree:" Sorry to hear what you are going through give your hubby and yourself time to heal I know first hand ... [snip!] ... babies prior to this one we weren't even trying and got pregnant luckily this one stuck don't give up good luck again I'm sorry"
I agree. Give yourselves time to heal, emotionally, mentally and physically (for you).
I lost both my angels in the second trimester, one almost 10 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think of them...Someone once told me that losing a child is like raising one, a life-long process...and it's so true.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. *hugs*