Quoting dream:" I think if it's in a public place and meant as a "play date" for the kids, then there is nothing wrong ... [snip!] ... I would still treat the situation as if he were married .. to avoid the potential drama it could cause, which you referenced."
I am not sure when they separated exactly I do know that he is/was staying with a friend. Till he could find somewhere to rent.
He posted a status earlier about the greatest gift a guy wants from a girl is her heart and I seen that his wife posted on it saying something like I have a gift for you. and he was like you and I both know that gift is given away. She didn't say anything. She later removed her comment.
Maybe I will just call him tomorrow and explain it all and talk to him and see what he says about it.
I just know hes at the point where he don't care what she sees or knows. He made a joke about something my friend said and posting it on FB so her DH *his friend* would get mad. I said You will just make "J" mad and he was like i don't care what she sees she has no business in my business.