Quoting A.Ramirez's Mommy:" I'm not saying it is cheating on his part. I just don't like drama and I work with his cousins wife and ... [snip!] ... has just seems like one to cause it. I just don't want to be looked at as "that girl" when NOTHING is going on or will go on."
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Do what you want.... but, I don't think you should let "other people's opinions" stop you. I mean, do ... [snip!] ... and cons. What's the worst that can happen, what's the best? What's the in between... what's more likely... so on and so on. "
Quoting A.Ramirez's Mommy:" I think I will tell him we could meet at a park or something and let the kids play or at Mcdonalds and ... [snip!] ... it all I guess so everything is laid out. Does that sound good. Or should I just go with the flow of it and just hang out?"
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Go with the flow... but you can set some ground rules and explain why. That's my advice, but you need to do what you feel is right. "thanks mama
Quoting Rydicule91:" Do what YOU'RE comfortable with. If you want the marriage completely, legally over before you hang out ... [snip!] ... anything about me or that me and her soon to be ex are hanging out, you never know who's watching or talking smurf, ya know?"Yea I understand this completely.
Quoting Raptor Jesus (TTC):" Think of it like this: How would YOU feel if you were in her shoes? Would you be bothered by another ... [snip!] ... be livid if my husband had the gall to bring our children around another woman on a regular basis when we're still married.)"
Quoting A.Ramirez's Mommy:" Yea I understand this completely."
Quoting Rydicule91:" But it's not a bad idea since you two have been friends for so long. It could really go either way and you're in no way wrong to do either one. Hang out or wait or not. Hope no drama busts out!! "
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" They just want to be friends... she made that clear. If the wife is jealous of him hanging out with a female friend, sorry to say but screw her! "I have no doubt OP wants to be friends but let's get real.... This is an emotionally unstable man who has been through the ringer and he has asked OP over and over and over again to hang out. If he really wanted nothing more than a friendship he would've let it go after the first "no" or at least waited a while to ask again. Instead he's pestering OP continually and (to me) that implies he's interested in something more than friendship. Just because it's in a public place doesn't make it any more emotionally safe either.
Quoting Raptor Jesus (TTC):" I have no doubt OP wants to be friends but let's get real.... This is an emotionally unstable man who ... [snip!] ... with him but once again maybe I'm just ultra conservative like that. (Oh wow, I just called myself "conservative," lol.) "