Should i reduce to 2?

Right now i am 7 weeks pregnant with triplets. That in itself is a whirlwind of emotions. but we had only planned for 1. we did not use IVF or IUI and i was adopted so i dont know if i have multiples on my side and husband doesnt...
we can afford to take care of 3. but we are not emotionally prepared because we want to be able to give each child undivided attention. and with 3. thats going to be harder than 2 because at least with 2. my husband can be tending to one and i the other. my husband handles his business at home and only needs to take a few calls here and there...and go in once a week. and i have chosen to be a stay at home mom. or should i just wing it and keep it at three, even though its not what we planned for HOPE we can make it work somehow. see i dont like that idea either because i like knowing or at least having an idea how things will be. and our families are sooo very far away. errrr.

I would just worry reducing to two would kill my whole pregnancy. Also how woudl you choose?

It is your choice. Do what ever you and your SO feel right.

Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!"

Personally, I couldn't do it...I mean I couldn't reduce to 2 because I couldn't choose and I'd be worried that I'd lose the pregnancy altogether. That's just me. You have to do what's right for you...good luck

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!""

Try to be a little human? Jesus Lord. I'm sure OP is having a hard enough time with this decision, she doesn't need crap like this.


OP, do whatever is best for your family. I personally could not do that but its not about me. Its your decision.

You still have time to decide what you want to do. I would sit down and really discuss it with your husband and weigh out the options.

Good luck to you.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!""

That is a valid reason.

She worried that she will be overwhelmed with all three and knows her limits. She wants to be able to help her children grow and not worry about money or feel like she is stretch thin.

Quoting Jas ♥:" Try to be a little human? Jesus Lord. I'm sure OP is having a hard enough time with this decision, she ... [snip!] ... like this. OP, do whatever is best for your family. I personally could not do that but its not about me. Its your decision. "

This.

Do whatever you feel is right for you... I would reduce to 1 if that was me.. but Like Kala said I would be afriad that it would kill the remaining fetuses..

I don't think I could have 3 either... Do whatever you feel you need to do and don't listen to judgmental people...

Quoting Jas ♥:" Try to be a little human? Jesus Lord. I'm sure OP is having a hard enough time with this decision, she ... [snip!] ... like this. OP, do whatever is best for your family. I personally could not do that but its not about me. Its your decision. "

Oh please! Hard enough time? I see a person willing to terminate an embryo for an ignorant, selfish reason.

If you don't like it, oh well. Don't expect everyone to agree with your decisions after you post them.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!""

 

Do what feels right. Personally, I couldn't choose which one to abort. I would also be afraid that I would lose the whole pregnancy.

i wouldnt reduced because God didnt make a mistake in the number of babies he gave u . .its ur body dont get me wrong do what u want but i wouldnt there a reason u were blessed with 3 . .i think u can handle it and would regret it if u reduced to 2 because on back ur mind when u have 2 ur alway going wonder what the 3rd one would have been like . .what ever u just make sure u can live with it if things go wrong cuz sometimes things do go wrong and cause u lose them all. .

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" I would just worry reducing to two would kill my whole pregnancy. Also how woudl you choose? "

This!!

OP I wish you the best in what ever you decide.