re: Should i reduce to 2?

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Hah. You don't have to have children to see ignorant reasons for a decision."

negligence is an ignorant (which btw means uneducated) reason to reduce? I think not.

Quoting Jas ♥:" Its not about sugar coating it. Stop it with that lame excuse for you to be a complete bitch to this ... [snip!] ... with something she is doing with her body? Idgaf what she does, its not my life. Her decision does not affect me or my family. "

Get the smurf over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I do believe I was replying to the statement about "worrying about money."  "

yea but you are going on about how her reason is ignorant.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Hah. You don't have to have children to see ignorant reasons for a decision."

its not ignorant. shes looking at her choices, and coming to this website for help, NOT for your rude ass to be telling her its stupid. its HER BODY. honestly if she wants to end one, then i have her back 110% , theres no reason to judge, ive had an abortion too. its a tough choice to make in her spot. but she will make the right decision in the end. now just shut the hell up and go on somewhere, she doesnt need to stress out over this (:

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" negligence is an ignorant (which btw means uneducated) reason to reduce? I think not."

How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

Really? Really? You can't pick if you're going to have one then one.

Maybe if you have read and not skimmed then you would know she was adopted, she doesn't know if multiples runs in her family. Maybe she TTC one. Ever think of that. Bitch.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get the smurf over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it."

Well how the smurf am I suppose to not like something I don't read?  
Smurf outta here. Bitch is still knocked up but has the nerve to chime in about the stress of raising kids and smurf. Have a couple of seats.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!""</blockquote>




I agree! so many women are dying to concieve and are not able to. I understand that you want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another.

OP you need to do what is best for you and your family. If that means reducing to two or even one then by all means do so. None of us know your situation so we can't say yay or nay except for basing it off of personal feelings.

You know what is best for you, your health, and your family. Keeping or terminating is completely up to you.

My only concern would be if the termination of one accidently ending the pregnancy all together.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get the smurf over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it."

oh and anybody that says they are blank years young is ignorant.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elaina Layden:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting ... [snip!] ... want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another."</blockquote>




Someone else's infertility has nothing to do with OP.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."

maybe she has a child and knows how much smurfing energy and work go into raising one. I couldn't imagine raising 3 at once.

Quoting Mermaid Hathor Elaina-Wed:" Really? Really? You can't pick if you're going to have one then one. Maybe if you have read and not ... [snip!] ... would know she was adopted, she doesn't know if multiples runs in her family. Maybe she TTC one. Ever think of that. Bitch. "

Every woman TTC runs the risk of having multiples. Bitch. It doesn't have to "run in your family" to get knocked up with multiples.

Quoting Elaina Layden:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting ... [snip!] ... want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another."

The smurf does someone else not able to conceive have to do with OP or anyone else for that matter? Its no one's fault that they aren't capable or having a hard time. Yeah, I said it.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."

Because they know. What if you got pregnant with 4? Do you think you wouldn't have been overwhelmed.