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re: Should i reduce to 2?

posted 18th Sep
Op, something else to consider is the high risk of birth-defects like cerebral palsy. If I were you,I'd reduce now while they are merely embryos. Good luck, this is the kind of decision you need to make WITHOUT considering whether other people will approve.Be pro-active in your life and with your pregnancy and if you think it's best to reduce,do it and owe no-one an explanation.
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I live in India
posted 19th Sep
Quoting thisunrest:" Op, something else to consider is the high risk of birth-defects like cerebral palsy. If I were you,I'd ... [snip!] ... pro-active in your life and with your pregnancy and if you think it's best to reduce,do it and owe no-one an explanation."
    
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I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine
posted 26th Sep
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Oh please! Hard enough time? I see a person willing to terminate an embryo for an ignorant, selfish ... [snip!] ... selfish reason. If you don't like it, oh well. Don't expect everyone to agree with your decisions after you post them."


i agree, i mean is adoption completely out? seeing how if you have 3 and give one away at least your giving that child the thing it was made to have... LIFE i am not anti-abortion but i believe that it is a cop-out. plus abortion is risking for the other two would your risk all 3 just bc you dont want 1?! id adopt him/her out on a open adoption so that my triplets would at least know eachfother i would not abort
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I'm due October 13th (a girl) & live in Osteen, Florida
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posted 26th Sep
Quoting Sabrina Norvitz:" i agree, i mean is adoption completely out? seeing how if you have 3 and give one away at least your ... [snip!] ... you dont want 1?! id adopt him/her out on a open adoption so that my triplets would at least know eachfother i would not abort"


I dont know many people who could have twins or triplets and just give one away, while they raise the other.
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posted 26th Sep
Quoting Sabrina Norvitz:" i agree, i mean is adoption completely out? seeing how if you have 3 and give one away at least your ... [snip!] ... you dont want 1?! id adopt him/her out on a open adoption so that my triplets would at least know eachfother i would not abort"

There are other reasons for her reducing her pregnancy. She had a lot of complications her first pregnancy and only made it to 34 weeks. If she carries all 3 her OB said she most likely wont make it to the point of viability. By reducing to two, she could be saving the other two and her own lives.
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I have 2 kids & live in Arizona
posted 26th Sep
Quoting Sabrina Norvitz:" i agree, i mean is adoption completely out? seeing how if you have 3 and give one away at least your ... [snip!] ... you dont want 1?! id adopt him/her out on a open adoption so that my triplets would at least know eachfother i would not abort"
You might want to try reading the WHOLE discussion. If she carries all three, she risks losing all of them if she goes into preterm labor like she did with her first single pregnancy. Reducing may be the only way to save herself and 1 or 2 of the babies instead of losing all.
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I live in Texas
posted 26th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Sabrina Norvitz:</b>" i agree, i mean is adoption completely out? seeing how if you have 3 and give one away at least your ... [snip!] ... you dont want 1?! id adopt him/her out on a open adoption so that my triplets would at least know eachfother i would not abort"</blockquote>




That's smurfing stupid. That would totally mess a kid up being put up for adoption while the other 2 stayed.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Washington
posted 27th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Brink:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sabrina Norvitz:</b>" i agree, i mean is adoption completely ... [snip!] ... That's smurfing stupid. That would totally mess a kid up being put up for adoption while the other 2 stayed."</blockquote>



I agree. If I was her I would reduce to 2 or even 1 by the sounds of how bad her last pregnancy went. I would rather have 1 baby here with me than 3 in heaven... Just my opinion.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in United Kingdom
posted 27th Sep
Quoting Becky + Zack:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brink:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sabrina Norvitz:</b>" ... [snip!] ... by the sounds of how bad her last pregnancy went. I would rather have 1 baby here with me than 3 in heaven... Just my opinion."

THIS!
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I have 2 kids & live in Arizona
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