re: Should i reduce to 2?

Quoting Ren and Carson's mommy + :" Personally, I couldn't do it...I mean I couldn't reduce to 2 because I couldn't choose and I'd be worried ... [snip!] ... and I'd be worried that I'd lose the pregnancy altogether. That's just me. You have to do what's right for you...good luck"

well drs said i would have a better chance at carrying near term. because my last single pregnancy i carried to 34 weeks. and he said with this one i would have much greater chance of going into pre term labor even sooner if kept at triplets. or they may not make it to age of viability at all

Quoting Jayannes Mommyy&& Tylers :" Right now i am 7 weeks pregnant with triplets. That in itself is a whirlwind of emotions. but we had ... [snip!] ... either because i like knowing or at least having an idea how things will be. and our families are sooo very far away. errrr."

OP you might want to erase this and move to AS so you can't be attacked....

Quoting Mermaid Hathor Elaina-Wed:" That is a valid reason. She worried that she will be overwhelmed with all three and knows her limits. ... [snip!] ... knows her limits. She wants to be able to help her children grow and not worry about money or feel like she is stretch thin. "

She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them.

I'm sorry OP that is a tough decision. Good luck with whatever you decide <3 ignore the morons on here who give you smurf. not their life.

hunny dont listen to any of these harsh people. you and your hubby are the parents you make the decision. honesly id say no, and if you just want 2 give one up. but id keep all three. if you EVER need a friend just message me,... or however you do that on here lol.  

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

Like she chose to have triplets? Wow...

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Oh please! Hard enough time? I see a person willing to terminate an embryo for an ignorant, selfish ... [snip!] ... selfish reason. If you don't like it, oh well. Don't expect everyone to agree with your decisions after you post them."

And? Its not your business. She's asking for HELP, not your dumb ass ignorance. If you don't agree with her reducing, you can say it more nicely. I was able to.

Triplets mean a harder more risky pregnancy for both mum and babies, they would be probably be born premature by c-section, I don't think OP is being selfish... She wants to make sure she can give her children a good life, she may not be able to cope with 3. I think your just being pro-birth rather than pro-life.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

Pretty much.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

u need to stfu. you dont even have kids YET. so you wouldnt even know what its like to take care of your own.. babysitting doesnt count. and being pregnant doesnt count.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Like she chose to have triplets? Wow..."

Exactly.

I'm so glad that I don't have the brain the size of a pea like some of these women in this thread.

Quoting Jayannes Mommyy&& Tylers :" u need to stfu. you dont even have kids YET. so you wouldnt even know what its like to take care of your own.. babysitting doesnt count. and being pregnant doesnt count."

  Right.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

wow. you're somethign else.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

Some people can handle one or two and be overwhelmed by a third. She unfortunately got 3 at once without knowing. It's not her fault, at least she isn't willing to bring a child into her life if she feels it may be neglected in some way. Damn, leave her alone. She knows her limits and she is obviously struggling with this decision.

I think you should keep it at 3. You were given three, so that is how it should remain. Everything happens for a reason. And if you are able to afford it - then thats all that much better. Lol.

But, in the end its your decision.  

I dont think I'd be able to tell my children that they had a brother or sister who died though, by my choice nonetheless.