Quoting blakes mommy☮:" What kind of things do you and your ex have in your custody agreement? my ex and i only days of the ... [snip!] ... holidays birthdays communication with the other parent when he is not with them what else? important factors ....quote"
Make sure that you both agree on the kinds of medical care that you with to have and discuss foods and punishments.. all the basics. Its surprising how you think that they have the common sense to be doing the right thing or at least trying to but this is not always the case. My step son has no idea that there are meant to be veggies and fruit in his diet, he also believes that he has to be taking antibiotics to not be sick.
Amazing how they say they are going to take care of these thnigs but unless you have it in writting there are sooo many things that they out right deny.
Cover EVERYTHING that you can think of !!!