Quoting Mother of Hayward.:" Honestly, I would just tell him to either make a set plan, or forget about it. It doesn't sound like ... [snip!] ... he's too interested IMHO. Don't go out of your way if he doesn't even want to bother to take time to see his son. Sorry mama ):"
I know! I am just always trying...he did send me half of the flight because I told him if he didn't he wouldn't get to see him. He tells me he misses him, I just need him to put more effort, I do not want to get there and have him changing plans like if I don't have anything else to do.