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go with my heart or no?

posted 16th Sep
my names chelsea, im 18 going on 19 in oct. im 27 weeks pregnant with a little boy. my sons dad wants to get married to me, but he would rather take care of everyone elses kids but his real one (mine), he doesnt ask if hes ok or go to dr apps.. he almost hurt him with an" infection" and said it was my fault! we arent together anymore by the way... but id rather be my former boyfriend, he actually wants to be there for me and my son, however hes leaving for the navy. so im not sure what to do. i love him but i dont have feelings for my sons dad anymore :/
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I have 1 child & live in Mt Sterling, Ohio
posted 16th Sep
I'm confused your child isn't even born yet so how is he not taking care of his kid?
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I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Chesapeake, Virginia
posted 16th Sep
if you dont love him dont put yourself your child or BD through that be true to yourself...He will be your Sons dad if your together or not
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I have 1 child & live in Brandon, Florida
posted 16th Sep
i mean he acts like he doesnt care. he wont go to drs apps, but my former bf jumps at the chance.
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I have 1 child & live in Mt Sterling, Ohio
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" I'm confused your child isn't even born yet so how is he not taking care of his kid?"

yeah I'm scratching my head over here. I ave no idea what to think
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I have 4 kids & live in Columbus, Ohio
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Chelsea Dawn Moore:" i mean he acts like he doesnt care. he wont go to drs apps, but my former bf jumps at the chance."
He doesn't have to go to the Doctors appts. Most of them aren't a big deal anyway. You can't judge how he is as a dad til the baby is born.
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I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Chesapeake, Virginia
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Chelsea Dawn Moore:" i mean he acts like he doesnt care. he wont go to drs apps, but my former bf jumps at the chance."
I think its selfish of you to let your former boyfriend come to the appts. Sounds like your emotionally cheating
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I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Chesapeake, Virginia
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Chelsea Dawn Moore:" i mean he acts like he doesnt care. he wont go to drs apps, but my former bf jumps at the chance."


  Oh god one of those girls. You can't say he doesn't care until the baby gets here. Some guys just don't get excited until the baby gets here. And it doesn't matter how you feel about him he is still you kid's dad.
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I have 3 kids & live in AMITE, Louisiana
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" I'm confused your child isn't even born yet so how is he not taking care of his kid?"

Maybe by not buying things, preparing for the child, ect.
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I have 1 child & live in New York, New York
posted 16th Sep
If you're second guessing getting married, don't get married. Problems before a marriage usually only get worse.
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I have 1 child & live in New York, New York
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Regina George ♡:" Maybe by not buying things, preparing for the child, ect. "

LOL omg wow! That doesn't mean he going to be a bad dad
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I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Chesapeake, Virginia
posted 16th Sep

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:"   Oh god one of those girls. You can't say he doesn't care until the baby gets here. Some guys ... [snip!] ... guys just don't get excited until the baby gets here. And it doesn't matter how you feel about him he is still you kid's dad."

im not one of those girls... he was my first, gave me an infection coulda killed the baby...and didnt care.



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I have 1 child & live in Mt Sterling, Ohio
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" LOL omg wow! That doesn't mean he going to be a bad dad"


Well if I was pregnant with someones child, and he was busy buying other kids other things and not his own I'd be a little upset too.
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I have 1 child & live in New York, New York
posted 16th Sep
Quoting Regina George ♡:" Well if I was pregnant with someones child, and he was busy buying other kids other things and not his own I'd be a little upset too. "

me too  
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 16th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawn Moore:</b>" "</blockquote>




That's not hardly the same as him not wanting to go to doctors appointments. Maybe you should have said that to start off with because saying after the fact makes you seem fake.
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I have 3 kids & live in AMITE, Louisiana
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