Quoting Chelsea Dawn Moore:" i mean he acts like he doesnt care. he wont go to drs apps, but my former bf jumps at the chance."
From what i have seen, the guys that jump at being a dad so young are usually the ones who are just caught up in a fantasy part of parenting.
Im 35weeks pregnant and my husband has gone to two ultrasounds and one appt..He rarely asks if things went ok. He usually only asks if he knows i have had some issue. We have two other kids together and he is a hell of a dad. He just trusts that if anything is wrong that i will tell him. If you bd is so good with other kids, maybe he knows that nothing much goes on at appts . Give him a chance. You dont have to be with him but give him his right to be a father. I think you may be a little distracted by this other guy. Try to put things in focus.