Quoting Mrs.O!:" when someone says "I think I'm ready" they usually aren't...honestly babies are a hell of a lot of work ... [snip!] ... very active in the childs life and to raise them together).... but really nothing anyone says is going to change your mind.."
Hell, I am 23 and wish I would have waited longer...at least until I got the chance to go to college and finish it.
SO was getting paid a grand a week. He is layed off now, can't find a job, and we are living on a fixed income from unemployment. The only job I can get is making 400 every two weeks at a min wage job because I have no higher education.
If he ever left, I would be screwed. My rent is 400 bucks alone. I couldnt pay for utilities, diapers, or anything else.