Quoting Rebecca_She:" I don't know what's wrong with these parents. They were supposed to help us out and be happy for us. ... [snip!] ... gain). You should not even try to call your father again. One day he'll came and be happy about your child. Trust me! "
Agreed. If your parents can't be pillars of support, then their opinions no longer matter. When the baby comes home, I think your father's feelings might change. There's something magical about seeing a baby that changes people's hearts. They have a lot of expectations, dreams and hopes, they just worry that a child will keep you from obtaining them. This is hardly ever true.
They usually say a person worrying about a being a good mom is on the first steps at becoming the best mom!