Quoting TheSugarComa:" keep your chin up Everyone will have soo many things to tell you on how to raise your kid, with time ... [snip!] ... want to throw the towel and give up. And if she is soo motivated, she should be cleaning your place instead of complaining."
I'm learning slowly how to do that, because I really can't handle some of the advice because people will tell me to do things, that I already know I don't want to do or have tried and didn't work.
And I know, like we live with my mom but it doesn't mean that she does everything. Like since I am a SAHM, she expects me to do like 90% of the housework and for SO to help when he isn't working-which isn't unreasonable. It's just tough. And my friend still lives with her parents and doesn't have to do like any work, so yeah I wish she'd come clean my house lol.