done!

Thank you ladies!

I had an abortion when my daughter was a little over a year.

I knew that having another mouth to feed would be detrimental to my child that was already here, and I chose to do everything I could to ensure that she was well taken care of.

I do not regret one moment choosing abortion.

My daughter was 6 months old when I had mine. I was going to school, constantly fighting with my SO and I just knew I couldn't emotionally handle bringing another child into that, let alone financially.

*Hugs*

I knew I could not have another child at that time so I went ahead and did it. There were no pros to my situation so it was easy for me. Things I would consider are financial and living situation, how your spouse or father of your kids feels about this, do you think you can mentally handle another child, do you think you can mentally handle an abortion.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I had an abortion when my daughter was a little over a year. I knew that having another mouth to feed ... [snip!] ... I chose to do everything I could to ensure that she was well taken care of. I do not regret one moment choosing abortion. "

My youngest is only 7 months and my oldest is 3 (will be 4 in February) by the time this baby got here, we would be able to do it financially but it would be tight. That's one reason I'm considering it.

I chose abortion at the time because it was the baby or my other childs father.. But now I dont regret it. I was torn up about it when it was happening but now Im better.

Ive never had one but if i were to get pregnant now i would choose abortion. Im barely making it now and its not fair to my daughter to make myself even poorer kwim? Dont know your situation but the kids that are here already are the main priority in my opinion

I've never had an abortion, but I do wanna say don't do it unless you're completely sure. You can't really un-do it y'know?

I have a three year old son and had an abortion this past february. My SO and I decided that it was simply not a good time to bring another person into this world. We currently live wih our parents and lost our jobs. (we were working at the same company and it went out of business). Our son is our world and there was no possible way to proprly provide for him as well as another. Best of luck. Pm me if you would like to talk!

I've never had an abortion, but my only advice...if you want it, is to really weigh your pro's and con's. I don't know how far along you are, but I wouldn't jump into unless you know that it is absolutely the best option for yourself and your family.

Thank you ladies!

I'm going to see exactly how far along I am tomorrow and see what the doctor says. We are getting back on our feet, but still working on getting everything caught up. By the time this baby got here we would be fine financially but it would be a tad tight. We were just ready to be done and be able to spoil the kids we have. Bringing another baby into the mix would make that impossible (and typing that out makes it sound like such a selfish reason   ....) Plus, my last pregnancy was hell and I don't want to risk being put on bed rest again and not being able to take care of my kids.

Again, thank you ladies!

Best of luck to you in whatever choice you make.  

Quoting 624582:" Best of luck to you in whatever choice you make.  "

Thank you!

Quoting Juggernog-aholic:"

That is not selfish. You are thinking about your KIDS that are here.. not that fetus.