re: Feeling lonely and empty

Thanks, yeah will have to look into that, I was gutted when I found out I can't get any counselling session for another 4-6 weeks. I thought there'd be some kind of rush about stuff like this, obviously not. I mean I don't know how I'm gonna feel in that amount of time, its ridiculous. It's nice to know that everyone else feels like this too, makes it easier to deal with. Sometimes I feel like I'm just over reacting, and I feel like the people that know are thinking I'm being pathetic in my emotions. Did anyone have contraception put in place while they were there? I had a depo injection, I don't know if my hormones are playing up because of that or because of the termination. Either way I'm a mess.

Quoting kirstiebee:" Thanks, yeah will have to look into that, I was gutted when I found out I can't get any counselling session ... [snip!] ... injection, I don't know if my hormones are playing up because of that or because of the termination. Either way I'm a mess."

well ending pregnancy...whether by labor, miscarriage, abortion, whatever the case, your hormones are messed up for a few weeks after, getting back to normal...so that prob has a little to do with it as well...im going to ask my doctor to put me on antidepressants just for a few months to get my moods regulated

Quoting supermommy☠:" well ending pregnancy...whether by labor, miscarriage, abortion, whatever the case, your hormones are ... [snip!] ... to do with it as well...im going to ask my doctor to put me on antidepressants just for a few months to get my moods regulated"

yeah that sounds like a good idea. Was just wondering when do you get your first period after it has all happened, cos today definitely feels like a first period day. I'm bleeding a lot heavier than I have been and its a brighter red. It's only been a week since I had it done.

Quoting kirstiebee:" yeah that sounds like a good idea. Was just wondering when do you get your first period after it has ... [snip!] ... period day. I'm bleeding a lot heavier than I have been and its a brighter red. It's only been a week since I had it done."

I know it took about a month to get back. But it varies.

I guess that's one of the most annoying parts, you don't know what's normal cos "everyone is different"

Quoting kirstiebee:" yeah that sounds like a good idea. Was just wondering when do you get your first period after it has ... [snip!] ... period day. I'm bleeding a lot heavier than I have been and its a brighter red. It's only been a week since I had it done."

ive been having light bleeding since my procedure, its been 9 days ago...i was told my period would start 4-6 weeks after the procedure

Yeah, I've been bleeding ever since, and it was heavy but it got very light and now its heavy again, odd.