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re: would it be selfish in this case to abort?

posted 12th Sep
Quoting Jaqulyne Elisha:" lol , SHE ASKED FOR OPINONS & I GAVE MINE ! RATHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT."

..... No. you simply told her that abortion was a sin.
and that she needed to go to rehab to save her and the baby.
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I'm due November 4th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Kansas
posted 12th Sep
^ lmao
my opinion is you're a smurfing moron..
 
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Illinois
posted 12th Sep
some people really need to think before they open there legs but no its not selfish
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I'm due October 18th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Anderson, South Carolina
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Demondarkstorm Thalette:" some people really need to think before they open there legs but no its not selfish"
You have NO IDEA what her situation is.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Tennessee
posted 12th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Demondarkstorm Thalette:</b>" some people really need to think before they open there legs but no its not selfish"</blockquote>



Really? Was that necessary?
Do you think before you open your mouth?
My guess is no.
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I'm due November 13th, have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Maryland
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Yamamotototo:" in only 9 weeks pregnant. but i dont want to be pregnant anymore because i still drink and smoke ice ... [snip!] ... but i cant. and if i did end up keeping it, it would probably retarded or deformed or blind or deaf or all of the above"

I give you props most women would keep the baby && try to sike themselves into thinking there ready if your not ready then dont put the baby or your self thorugh that type of predicament ...<3





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posted 12th Sep
The trolls are out tonight. 8
I have a feeling this is going to end up in TDC....
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I'm due with 6 December 20th, have 15 kids & live in Texas
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Jaqulyne Elisha:" lol , SHE ASKED FOR OPINONS & I GAVE MINE ! RATHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT."

You are right. She did ask for opinions. But you can deliver your opinion in a more constructive manner.
The OP is struggling with addiction, and having this moral/ethical dilemma on herself.
So if you had answered her question directly and without caps lock, such as:

"I find abortion to be morally reprehensible, so I would find it selfish. I believe you owe it to yourself and your unborn fetus to try rehab instead." **

You probably wouldn't have been modded...

**And I don't agree with that line of thinking, just saying there are tasteful ways to share even unpopular opinions.
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I have 1 child & live in Virginia
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Derpy Hooves:" You are right. She did ask for opinions. But you can deliver your opinion in a more constructive manner. ... [snip!] ... **And I don't agree with that line of thinking, just saying there are tasteful ways to share even unpopular opinions. "
^this.


ultimately, it is her body, and her decision on what she does.

yes, she does need to seek help for the addiction, and she notices that. but what she doesn't know, is how easy/hard it will be for her.

and honestly, if she doesn't think this is something she can take on right now, then abortion would be the best option.
either that, or her relapse, and put the baby in danger.

but again, best of luck to you, and your decision. hope things work out in your favor and you're able to help yourself.
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I'm due November 4th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Kansas
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Ari™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Demondarkstorm Thalette:</b>" some people really need to think ... [snip!] ... its not selfish"</blockquote> Really? Was that necessary? Do you think before you open your mouth? My guess is no."
of course it was neccessary and yea i think about what comes out of my mouth.. she knew she had addictions before she went and got knocked up so im just in what i said so... do you think before asking stupid questions
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I'm due October 18th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Anderson, South Carolina
posted 12th Sep
Wow what a great first post.  

I would have to say that this is NOT selfish, it would be selfish to stay pregnant and still drink and smoke crack!
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Santa Rosa, California
posted 12th Sep
I was in your situation a few years ago when i was 16. i was on crank and meth and i got pregnant. i chose to abort. its a hard decision but i knew it was what was best. after my abortion i got clean and ive been clean since. best of luck to you and all your endeavors.
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I have 1 child & live in Georgia
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Demondarkstorm Thalette:" of course it was neccessary and yea i think about what comes out of my mouth.. she knew she had addictions ... [snip!] ... had addictions before she went and got knocked up so im just in what i said so... do you think before asking stupid questions "
Oh. my bad.
when the condom broke with SO, and i got pregnant with this child, i should have thought, and not spread my legs.

smfh.
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I'm due November 4th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Kansas
posted 12th Sep
Quoting Demondarkstorm Thalette:" of course it was neccessary and yea i think about what comes out of my mouth.. she knew she had addictions ... [snip!] ... had addictions before she went and got knocked up so im just in what i said so... do you think before asking stupid questions "


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I'm due with 6 December 20th, have 15 kids & live in Texas
posted 12th Sep
Quoting 1+1=3♥:" "
 
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I'm due November 4th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Kansas
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