Teen Mom

I just watched the last episode finale part two. I have been following this show only because my story was so close to Maci and Ryan's. My fiance even looks like he is related to Ryan except he has brown hair and blue eyes. I started watching the show after I gave birth to my son. I first thought when hearing of "16 and Pregnant" that it was just another show to enhance kids to become pregnant and be famous, but yet of course get the money to be set on their mishap of becoming pregnant at 16yrs old. I have to say that I am happy I saw the shows the first month my son was born. I actually caught the finale and got stuck on Maci's story. I was literally addicted. The way Ben had treated me so coldly when I was pregnant was so close to Maci's Ryan. It hurt me to see how she felt because I had hid my emotions in order to keep my family together. Any sign of weakness to Ben was bad and he thought that it wasn't meant to be. I had to be strong to survive when I wanted to crumble up and run away from my fears of becoming a teen parent I was so angry because he could be so up forth with his feelings, not thinking of what I would feel or what would really happen in means of the future because he was only thinking about himself. Of course I let myself sit there and listen to everything as it stabbed my heart. I kept the positivity in my mind that he would come around and understand once he started feeling the baby move, seeing his ultrasound, and hearing the heartbeat. It eventually did but we all know that it takes up to almost the second trimester for any physical sign of the baby's existance. It was the hardest thing I had ever had to do as a teen, AND I WORKED TWO JOBS AND WENT TO SCHOOL FULL TIME! Ben was just no help until later, he hasn't even begun to imagine all the hardships I had gone through when he was unsupportive. Nonetheless, I am happy to see that Maci did well. Her emotionalal crazed status toward Ryan will seem neverending. I'm just happy that she is a great mom for Bentley and Ryan actually is around for him.

Honestly, at the end of the show I thought they'd be together. It ticked me off after seeing the ending of Ryan confess his love for Dalis, even though all over the internet and her tweets says he cheats and they are no longer together. It just makes me angry cause Ben and I actually worked hard for everything after Dominic. We didn't let the fights come between us because in the end we want the same thing, and we want it together. I hope everyone who watched got a piece of what they needed to be strong, a romodel to follow/look up to, and somewhere on any level to relate to another story to know they are not alone! It is hard being a teen mother, but what's even harder is growing up with that fact to fully becoming an adult before your ready.

Goodluck to all of you teen mothers and future teen moms. I truly believe that if you strive for what you want and use all you have, you just might get to where you want to go ♥

You sound quite obsessive about that show

i watch that show too and amber is crazy as hell  bahaha

Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" You sound quite obsessive about that show"

My thoughts exactly. That was VERY long. lol

Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" You sound quite obsessive about that show"

I agree!!!

That show is crap  

I'm sad that teen mom is going off.   I like the original girls.

Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" You sound quite obsessive about that show"

I'm not obsessive, it just ended for good. The first actually teen moms' are off the show. I looked up to Maci's parenting and respected her story. Just sad to see it end but knew it had to come to an end. I was a teen mom as well. I had a lot to relate. I liked the show cause it went from emotions of parenting, potty training, schooling, and patience. It's hard being a teen mom and literally being looked at like you have to be a romodel and do everything right. You honestly feel like you are the only one. I felt that way until I saw the show after the birth of my son and I was opposed to the show before I even saw it. So basically I am just going off of what I felt for the whole episode and given out my advice about teen mom and hope for others, as I am not a teen mom anymore. Nothing wrong with being supportive or having comments about the show.

I didn't read the whole thing because it was just to long... What exactly is the point of this post?

Quoting sooletsunwind:" That show is crap  "

It is. I feel so bad for those kids that will look back knowing their mothers were that much of a train wreck. :/

I skimmed it but seriously, i wouldn't want my kids looking up to the girls on teen mom, worst advice ever.

Quoting Gin@'s Babyfacee:" I'm not obsessive, it just ended for good. The first actually teen moms' are off the show. I looked up ... [snip!] ... mom and hope for others, as I am not a teen mom anymore. Nothing wrong with being supportive or having comments about the show."

They don't even show half of what it's really like to be a mother, they show what they want to show, again the show is smurf. It makes teen pregnancy look fun.

I don't care for negativity. I'm not going to fight back or reply to each and everyone asking questions. That's fine if you don't like it, it is on MTV. I understand your points that you would feel. Freedom of speech and I wrote what I wanted and how I felt. You all don't have to be rude. I'm not going through your posts and saying smurf about you like your obsessed or stupid for watching or that its a degrading show like "The Real World." If some of you teens actually care, cause this was for teen moms, I'm hear for support or any advice. My main point was that I have dealt with being a teen mom and that it is hard. If your going to be rude though keep your comments to yourself and do not contact me cause I obviously do not care for it. I thought this sight was about support and topics? You dont like teen mom why are you reading into this?

Quoting Gin@'s Babyfacee:" I'm not obsessive, it just ended for good. The first actually teen moms' are off the show. I looked up ... [snip!] ... mom and hope for others, as I am not a teen mom anymore. Nothing wrong with being supportive or having comments about the show."

It's hard being a mom no matter what age you are.

Quoting Christina2011:" I didn't read the whole thing because it was just to long... What exactly is the point of this post?"

That she can relate to Maci's experience with being a mother/teen mom.