Quoting Cassius' Mommy :" Same here. BD seen his son 3 times and hasnt seen him since he was 7 weeks old, he is 7 months now. His ... [snip!] ... more than our son. His mom text me today and said she was gonna buy my son a walker but his dad should be doing that ya know!"
Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" Yes girl I know what you mean...Ugh at this point I just feel it's better for him to just stay away if he's not planning on steppin up. I'm so over it. I am def a better of single mama. "
Quoting Chim Richalds:" My mom made that decision for me and I have never felt like I missed out on one thing. My sisters' ... [snip!] ... to his life AND he shows no interest anyway, you are only doing your son a favorite by making this decision, I promise."
Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" Thank you for sharing your experience! Jeez this whole experience has been a whirlwind of fear, emotions, ... [snip!] ... cater to BD who puts for zero effort and hasn't done anything to make me think he's changed or up for the challenge of "daddy"."
Quoting Chim Richalds:" How does he do with his gf's child? Do you know? That to me is just awful that he's there for someone else's child. I think it's great of you to stay open to his parents."
Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" BD parents are very much in denial about their son unfortunately. His mom say's "he's surprised us all, ... [snip!] ... heard of him being there for someone else's child. But then I thought, he's not financially obligated to this kid in any way. "Thats hpow my bds mama is. She said she is very upset that he doesnt try harder. I told him I would come to his house but he has a gf now that disrespected me. He doesnt take care of someone elses child but his gf might as well be a kid since she acts like one smh. I cant just be like go away I dont ever wanna see you again cause BD is on child support. I havent got any money yet but he can see his son any saturday he wants.
Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" Now BD wants to be friends on Facebook...no thanks. Gonna need a little more time before we're friends. But feel free to pay child support "
Quoting Cassius' Mommy :" My bd's new gf tried adding me on fb, then when i denied her TWICE she got mad and messaged me telling ... [snip!] ... Pissed me tf off!! I told bd and he handled it but I cant be friends with her. So she can be all in my business pshh!"
Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" I don't blame you for wanting your privacy. And being "friends" on fb would just be unnecessary. I ... [snip!] ... to leave us alone. If he were a good influence and didn't have a bunch of wrongs to make right it might be a different story."
Quoting Cassius' Mommy :" I changed my name on fb so now bd cant find me. You can set it up to where if he adds you and you dont him it wont let him add you again."
Quoting Mommy To Baby Rahul:" funny how they care for a child that its not their but won't give a damn for their own blood.smh"