re: BD met son for the 1st time

Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" Seriously. When I asked him why he never tried harder to meet his son he said, "I didn't know what else ... [snip!] ... said he "desensitized himself" and "made himself not care about either of us." Needless to say I will not be doing this again."

I've gone thru it too, my son turned 6 months today and his dad saw him 2 times and that only because I took him with me when I meet him. Once when we've done the DNA even though we were ordered to go separately he made the appointment so we could go in the same time and the second time last week when he came to give me a cheque. And his telling me he "loves" his son. That must explain why he never asks about him  

Quoting Mommy To Baby Rahul:" I've gone thru it too, my son turned 6 months today and his dad saw him 2 times and that only because ... [snip!] ... week when he came to give me a cheque. And his telling me he "loves" his son. That must explain why he never asks about him  "

Actions always speak louder than words. I don't understand how these men don't realize that.

Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:" Actions always speak louder than words. I don't understand how these men don't realize that."

They are pure bullsmurf