Quoting Ry's Mom ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:</b>" No one here said a single bad thing about ... [snip!] ... atleast 3 months though because I really don't want to put physical stress on myself. I will go talk to my OB about this "
No one asked "why you did it in the first place". You're being paranoid and jumping to conclusions. The one person who brought up the situation was doing so to be supportive. Usually after any kind of loss, people are quick to try and reclaim what they had, so she was just trying to get to the root of the problem.
No one has said anything wrong or jumped on your case...I've seen nothing but advice here so far.
Also, 3mo is way too soon in my opinion. That's not enough time for your body to heal, let alone your heart.