i feel horrible !

Everything has been perfect, healthy LO, I am healthy myself.
I though it was the perfect start to a new school year.
OH but wait- LO seen the dentist and he has 10 smurfin' cavities.

The dentist told me not to take it personally, because with all his health issues and meds it is to be expected but smurf - REALLY !

Now he has his prior health concerns and now is teeth , OH he also grins his teeth.

really, just one little break from life... just for a week or 2

I understand your upsetment, I do.


But every night when I say my prayers, I pray 'Lord, please keep Maximus cancer free, I will accept any side effects, as long as he is cancer free'

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" I understand your upsetment, I do. But every night when I say my prayers, I pray 'Lord, please keep Maximus cancer free, I will accept any side effects, as long as he is cancer free'"

I know I need to focus on that. I knew that this was going to happen. I have signed countless papers, saying it was but for it to happen and a dentist to blame MY parenting and not take in affect everything he has been though its SO hard to keep calm.

Quoting luctor et emergo ( L ) d&:" I know I need to focus on that. I knew that this was going to happen. I have signed countless papers, ... [snip!] ... it to happen and a dentist to blame MY parenting and not take in affect everything he has been though its SO hard to keep calm."

Really?? I missed that! Id be pissed and finding a new dentist.

"The dentist told me not to take it personally, because with all his health issues and meds it is to be expected but smurf - REALLY !"

You said the doctor said it wasn't personal with you and that it was to be expected with his health issues and meds, did a different dentist blame your parenting or something? Just confused me lol.

I'm sorry you and your LO are going through this, what do they want to do about the cavaties? I need to get my 3 year old to the dentist but she would freak out I already know it, she's delayed big time and would just be confused..she doesn't even let me brush her teeth without me holding her down half of the time.