re: Am I wrong for this?

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" I have tried to talk to her so much. She's the same woman that denied that my first son even belonged ... [snip!] ... She even goes as far to say that I am a bad mother to my son for having an abortion because that makes me heartless."

You dont have to explain yourself to her. You made your decision and whats done is done. You don't deserve to be badgered over what i'm sure was not an easy decision or situation for you in the first place. Your choice does not make you heartless or a bad mother. Her treating you like that makes her heartless. And if she's talking to you like that in front of her grandchild it makes her a bad grandma. If she were to continue I would inform her that you are letting her come visit out of the goodness in your heart and that if she won't kindly keep her thoughts to herself then her visits will be limited or ended.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Noah:</b>" Yeah and so Is lying so every Christian is going to hell if that's the case. It might be best I'm done with being the nice guy. I'm going to start being the heartless person they think that I am."</blockquote>




It might be best for you. They will never let up.

If I was in your situation and they were coming to my house saying that stuff, I wouldnt let them come anymore. If she wants to be a bitch be one right back. I dont agree with abortions but if i was u i sure as hell would not let a woman talk to me like that a bring it up. Tell her to build a bridge and get the smurf over it. Its done, theres nothing she can do about it now. Love the grand child she has now that she can see and spoil