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Interracial dating and their children

posted 10th Sep

well i'm here at work wanting on my client to come in and a co worker and i was talking about interracial couples and their children. I am a African american(as you can see ) and my ex husband is Caucasian and before we split we were ttcing but luckly for me i didn't end up pregnant by him. any who....my co worker asked me if my ex and i did have a child together would the next man i married would be Caucasian as well so the children would be the same ethics or would i have a child with someone my own race(or other). I have never been asked this question and i thought about those would be MY children and i would love My children whether they were purple or blue. i would have children with whoever i fall in love with again no matter what the skin color. I guess what i am trying to ask is anyone who is in a interracial relationship and had kids if you and your other half had broken up would your next relationship be with someone that same race?(i hope that made sense to you ladies forgive me if it didn't not at my best in the morning )

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I live in Jacksonville, Florida

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Kelly&Coralie

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posted 10th Sep

Nope I wouldn't date someone to make my future children have the same racial profiles

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I have 1 child & live in Rochester, New York

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Robbie's Incubator

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posted 10th Sep

I wouldn't do it specifically so my kids looked physically similar; I just like white dick.

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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Pearl City, Hawaii

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Future Hapa Mama-17 Weeks

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posted 10th Sep

Probably not.
I probably wouldn't choose to date again but if I did, the guy would be Asian as dh is.

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I'm due October 31st, have 2 angel babies & live in Kansas City, Missouri

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[wtf] i'm heather.

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posted 10th Sep

Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" I wouldn't do it specifically so my kids looked physically similar; I just like white dick."

haha

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I have 3 kids & live in Cincinnati, Ohio

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Jenna+1online

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posted 10th Sep

Yeah I would racially profile.
But I plan, if DH and I for any reason end up not together getting my tubes tide. I have seen way too many man have children with a women with kids and then treate her previous kids like crap. I know it's not every but it's not something I'd be willing to risk.
So I know I would never have to worry about that. But if I did, I would want my kids to look as much like siblings as possible.

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I have 1 child & live in Beach Haven, New Jersey

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NICKEL☮POLIS

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posted 10th Sep

I would not date someone because of their race, whether it was because I wanted all of my children to look the same or not.
Though if SO and I ever did break up I'd probably stick with another white man for the simple fact that SO has this thing about me and black guys ( I don't know why but it really irks him, I think he's genuinely concerned about me leaving him for a black man even though I've never been with one! ha they just like me ).
Yeah.

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I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario

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Aribean

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posted 10th Sep

<blockquote>Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" I wouldn't do it specifically so my kids looked physically similar; I just like white dick."</blockquote>

Amen! Lmao!!!
Nothin like a fleshy pink rod next to your brown box eh?

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I have 1 child & live in California

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Kelly&Coralie

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posted 10th Sep

Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" I would not date someone because of their race, whether it was because I wanted all of my children to ... [snip!] ... genuinely concerned about me leaving him for a black man even though I've never been with one! ha they just like me ). Yeah."

And see, I'd get with a black dude just to spite him

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I have 1 child & live in Rochester, New York

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Robbie's Incubator

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posted 10th Sep

Quoting Aribean:" <blockquote>Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" I wouldn't do it specifically so my ... [snip!] ... I just like white dick."</blockquote> Amen! Lmao!!! Nothin like a fleshy pink rod next to your brown box eh?"

Oh, my God. Yes.
*high five*

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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Pearl City, Hawaii

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.CeCe.

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posted 10th Sep

Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" I wouldn't do it specifically so my kids looked physically similar; I just like white dick."

This!!!! Lmao

I just am attracted to white men *shrugs*

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I'm due January 3rd, have 1 child & live in New Jersey

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lovely_rosa

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posted 10th Sep

Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" I wouldn't do it specifically so my kids looked physically similar; I just like white dick."

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I live in Jacksonville, Florida

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Aribean

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posted 10th Sep

I wouldn't care about skin color honestly but the only men I've ever been attracted to we're Italian/caucasian/hispanic mixes......just not really attracted to black guys. But If one day my vagina decided damn that black guy if smurfin sexy then who gives a smurf

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I have 1 child & live in California

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lovely_rosa

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posted 10th Sep

Quoting Aribean:" <blockquote>Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" I wouldn't do it specifically so my ... [snip!] ... I just like white dick."</blockquote> Amen! Lmao!!! Nothin like a fleshy pink rod next to your brown box eh?"

lmfao

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I live in Jacksonville, Florida

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Aribean

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posted 10th Sep

<blockquote>Quoting Robbie's Incubator:" Oh, my God. Yes. *high five*"</blockquote>

Lmao...*whoop whoop*

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