Baby's daddy momma rant

My boyfriend currently lives with his aunt since his om got him evicted from HIS apartment about 2 months ago. His aunt lives in a THREE bedroom house and there are currently TEN people living there. With roaches and bugs everywhere, that I am allergic to and can not be around.

Well lately his mom is always having to borrow money from me and paying me back when she can...she currently only owes me $15 but, she got paid a week ago. Instead of paying me back MY money, she goes and blows her WHOLE paycheck at the Internet cafe.

So tonight, I had some lucky charms. And a child told me "give me some" . So I said ask please. The child did and I gave them a handful. I poured another bowl for myself and the child snatched it out of my hand. Well, of course I'm like no that is mine I will give you some more. Next thing I know I'm being cussed out by this woman OVER SOME DAMN LUCKY CHARMS!!!!!!! Like what the smurf ?

Like she is so smurfing stupid and I honestly don't even want to go around anyone in that family. I do EVERYTHING they ask me to do for them. I let them borrow money, get them food, and make sure they have something to eat and drink.

To make matters worse, my boyfriend didn't defend me at all and now will not talk to me...

I guess it's just the hormones. It I'm just very upset about this situation......she is seriously a sorry ass pathetic smurfing mom. I'm fed up with her bull smurf and I have decided she will have NOTHING to do with my child.

Sorry this is so long. It's just me venting... 

It sounds to me like you are being taken advantage of.

I'd suggest getting your own place and not allowing them over. Boyfriend included until he can shape up.

smurf i probably would have whooped her ass. people can be so damn greedy!!!

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I'd suggest getting your own place and not allowing them over. Boyfriend included until he can shape up."

  

Case is simple, find somewhere else to stay and don't lend them money. And your boyfriend needs to grow a pair. You're being used.
Unfortunately it's too late for those kids, they'll grow up to be rude.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I'd suggest getting your own place and not allowing them over. Boyfriend included until he can shape up."</blockquote>




This...you're being used.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I'd suggest getting your own place and not allowing them over. Boyfriend included until he can shape up."</blockquote>




!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know I am being used. But I have always just tried to be nice and hoped that maybe when I needed help they would help me. And I do plan on getting my own place ASAP and no my boyfriend will not be there either. Tonight was the final straw. I'm fed up with it and can not deal with it any longer!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ZenMama:</b>" It sounds to me like you are being taken advantage of."</blockquote>


!!!! I'm not surprised they are acting that way my step dads family and my dads family are all like that you just gotta cuts ties and move on. I wouldn't deal with that hot mess.

Quoting Brianna G :" I know I am being used. But I have always just tried to be nice and hoped that maybe when I needed help ... [snip!] ... no my boyfriend will not be there either. Tonight was the final straw. I'm fed up with it and can not deal with it any longer!"

That's a very sweet thing of you to do, but naive. People that are able to walk on someone will. And you've been taken advantage of. I hope you find something for you and your unborn soon You don't need to be around that kind of environment anyways.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brianna G :</b>" I know I am being used. But I have always just tried to be nice and hoped that maybe when I needed help ... [snip!] ... no my boyfriend will not be there either. Tonight was the final straw. I'm fed up with it and can not deal with it any longer!"</blockquote>




Yea but don't allow them to treat you like a dormat just so you " might" be able to count on them later... Someone shouldn't have to get something out of you first to help you when needed if they really are helping or the right reason.
God luck getting away from that stress...

I'm glad I'm not the only person that sees a problem with this.
And I know its his mom and all, but if I had a mom that wouldn't even buy me food and would rather blow money at the Internet cafe, I would try to get away from her.

I mean she kicked his 2 roommates out that were paying rent and then got him evicted...

What kind of mom does that?

They seem like a using bunch of bastards, I would stop helping them, and as for your boyfriend not sticking up for you, well do I need to say more..

if my boyfriend would stick up for me there would definitely be an ex in front of his title. you are being taken advantage of and its not fair to you.