i am about to move out to be a live in a nanny to a single dad, i will be bringing my daughter with me and her father will be picking her up on the weekends (we are separating might end in divorce). now i am nervous that she will take to the man i am moving in with as her father..and i dont want that..he wont be home during the days though more at night. and i don't want her to get confused or anything. i guess i just don't know what to do. i have never been single like this with another man around my daughter. she is 14 months by the way. but any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.