Quoting mama3trish:" It makes you human, we forget that we are people too, not just parents. This may sound mean, but we laugh. ... [snip!] ... in every situation, but when we are stuck in negative it is hard to get out. Hang in there mama-ever need to vent I am here."
You are SO smurfing right, too. Thank you for your perspective. That kind of helps me a lot. We laugh sometimes, but we just aren't completely there yet. We're still in the "acceptance" phase. and he could grow out of the delays, but I hate that it is hard NOW. ya know? he's struggling NOW, and its hard to see....two hours in to the future, when he's going to be sweet, and say something completely unexpected. Today he said "come, mommy, bed." O.o Its the longest sentence he's put together thus far, and its just amazing to watch him learn. I have to look more at those moments.