re: "step mom" vent.

my sons "step mom" if you wanna call her that does the same thing. I said something to her and she deleted and blocked me from FB. But on a good night her husband(my sons father) told her to chill the smurf out with it=)

Quoting Mama Mallo (::" O_O I'd be furious about the religion thing. wooahh"

Yeah. They've been engaged a month or so. That's it. Ridiculous.

My youngest son's step mom does that. She's like "my boy"...and smurf, but only does it when they actually have him, and then any other time its out of sight out of mind. I had to delete her bc Im tired of it. I havent even heard from his dad in 2 months. Good riddance.

Quoting H&HMommyy:" my sons "step mom" if you wanna call her that does the same thing. I said something to her and she deleted ... [snip!] ... she deleted and blocked me from FB. But on a good night her husband(my sons father) told her to chill the smurf out with it=)"

That's another reason I won't bring it up.. I'd rather keep reading what she has to say about Noah. O_O heh.

Quoting Bill Gluckman:" My youngest son's step mom does that. She's like "my boy"...and smurf, but only does it when they actually ... [snip!] ... out of sight out of mind. I had to delete her bc Im tired of it. I havent even heard from his dad in 2 months. Good riddance."

That's so dumb O_O Same, she only posts about him when Noah is with his dad.. the other 9 months of the year.. not a damn thing. meh.

Quoting Mama Mallo (::" That's another reason I won't bring it up.. I'd rather keep reading what she has to say about Noah. O_O heh."

yeahh BUT there is always ways around that hahaha, my mom and cousins both added her=) and strange thing was she was DUMB enough to accept the request

Quoting H&HMommyy:" yeahh BUT there is always ways around that hahaha, my mom and cousins both added her=) and strange thing was she was DUMB enough to accept the request"

O_O lol wow

Quoting Mama Mallo (::" O_O lol wow"

I know right!?? She hates my guts though seriously and I have always been nice to her up until our conversation about that and then poof im deleted and blocked. She isnt allowed to come to my house anymore with my sons fathers comes it drives her crazy, she is blowing him up before he ever even walks out the door

Quoting Mama Mallo (::" That's so dumb O_O Same, she only posts about him when Noah is with his dad.. the other 9 months of the year.. not a damn thing. meh."

Not only that but they twist it like I keep him from them, when i don't. I never have. When we lived up there while my husband was deployed she was always getting him (his bio dad works out of state so he was only home like 1-2 weeks a month) but seriously as soon as we moved back to central tx when my husband got back, they just tapered off with everything. They havent even asked about him since July. They have 0 rights though. And they pay no child support. The sad thing is that my kid has stopped even asking about them. He knows what is going on.

Quoting H&HMommyy:" yeahh BUT there is always ways around that hahaha, my mom and cousins both added her=) and strange thing was she was DUMB enough to accept the request"

This one is fb friends with my sister lol. Along with a couple of other people who dont like her and tell me if she talks any crap. She will randomly friend request me once in a while but I deny it. She only wants on my fb to creep and that isnt happening.

Quoting Bill Gluckman:" This one is fb friends with my sister lol. Along with a couple of other people who dont like her and ... [snip!] ... She will randomly friend request me once in a while but I deny it. She only wants on my fb to creep and that isnt happening."

ohh FB home of all the stalkers/creepers.. I aint gonna lie im one myself

Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" My SO is like that. If we broke up he said he didn't even want another man AROUND his son, let alone claiming him."

Yeah we haven't been together most of my son's life so we obviously know we'll have a partner but there is mutual respect for one another. His other BM allows their son to call her husband dad and it makes him feel terrible. He is 2 years old than my son and calls me "Titi" which it's basically calling me aunt. I love him dearly but I would never disrespect his mother that way.

OP I think you should have a talk with BD and have him speak to her about it. If she continues, talk to her yourself.

Quoting H&HMommyy:" ohh FB home of all the stalkers/creepers.. I aint gonna lie im one myself"

LOL, I am too. But I keep my smurf locked down tight and dont add any of her friends. I have one of his sisters on my fb and they dont get along so I dont worry about it.

Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" Since she's doing it because she actually cares about him, she'll probably respect your wishes if you ask her not to claim him as her "son". Just talk to her about what makes you uncomfortable."

!!!

My daughters not born yet but when my BD was engaged to his thing i told him, flat out, she is not allowed around my daughter. If he wants to see her he would have to come to my house or we would have to meet somewhere and she couldnt be there. I have good reasons tho. She got her 2 yr old daughter high and smoked weed till she was 6 months pregnant with her son.