Did U keep and unwanted 2nd pregnancy

I only wanted to have one baby.... maybe a second in a few years, not now, while I still have a young baby. Anyway now its looking like the second will be coming in less that a year. I don't want this pregnancy. I am scared I can't handle it, my body can't handle it, I won't be a good mom to my LO because I will feel so smurffy for the next 9 months.

I wonder did you have an unexpected second pregnancy that you were scared or sad about? Did you keep it? How did it work out for you? Did you not keep it? How did you feel about that.

I would LOVE your honest story, thanks

You might want to repost this in AS if you're considering abortion. That's a protected forum, while resources & links is not.

Quoting i don't make vaginas.:" You might want to repost this in AS if you're considering abortion. That's a protected forum, while resources & links is not."

Not to be rude here but she cant still have one can she? She has to be around 30 weeks?

Are you due in Nov?

I have not been through this but my advice is to weigh out your 3 options
Keep
Abort
Adopt

Make a list of pros and cons for each option.think about what's best for you and your family

Yes, it was unexpected and yes I kept him. He's 11 weeks old. I was really really effing scared because we were far from financially stable. I'm talking like, way below the poverty line. It worked out in the end because DH got a better job and now we're doing okay. The pregnancy and labor was great and I can't imagine living without my little guy. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. I know that sounds hokey lol but I didn't have that feeling with my first.

<blockquote><b>Quoting i don't make vaginas.:</b>" You might want to repost this in AS if you're considering abortion. That's a protected forum, while resources & links is not."</blockquote>

Maybe she's not considering abortion? Looks like she's due in November, so its a little late for that..

Wtf you're due in November? By "keeping it" I'm assuming you mean adoption not abortion?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rette Mich:</b>" Not to be rude here but she cant still have one can she? She has to be around 30 weeks?"</blockquote>




If thts her right due date, then yeah I don't think that's possible. I didn't even notice. I figured she just found out bc "I won't be a good mom to my LObecause I will feel so smurffy for the next 9 months"

*shrugs idk*

Quoting i don't make vaginas.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rette Mich:</b>" Not to be rude here but she cant still have ... [snip!] ... figured she just found out bc "I won't be a good mom to my LObecause I will feel so smurffy for the next 9 months" *shrugs idk*"

Hmm good point. I guess it could be from her first pregnancy and she hasnt redone for her second?

I had an un wanted 3rd pregnancy, I got preg with an iud in place, so I was really torn on my feelings about it for a while... my 2nd child had just turned 1 and I was looking forward to getting back to my career and putting her in school... it went all down hill when I found out I was preg. I didn't want another baby so soon and with me being at home I was going to be stuck with 2 babies and put off getting back to work another 2 years,

I made an appt. For the abortion pill, and around that time I started to feel for this baby, like it didn't ask to be "made" I was angry that the iud didn't do its damn job and I was going to either lose this baby, or have another baby...

The iud ended up moving and the baby was able to form ok, and I had my 3rd child few months later... its not the way I planned it, and deff not what I wanted to deal with at the time but he's here and he's gorgeous and I'm glad I chose to keep him, and despite the iud being in there he was able to make it...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lovelylizz:</b>" Wtf you're due in November? By "keeping it" I'm assuming you mean adoption not abortion?"</blockquote>



Or maybe she's just asking how it was once the baby.got here for the moms who did keep the baby.

& she posted2 days ago asking if it was a bfp/evap.

OP, I kept this baby because I couldn't go through with an abortion. I know having another baby isn't exactly the best thing to happen to my daughter and I, and I often feel trapped but I kinda just roll with it.

You just posted a few days ago saying you don't use any type of BC and your DH doesn't even pull out. If that isn't asking for a 2nd pregnancy I don't know what else is. Maybe you should've invested in condoms/BC if you are having a unwanted 2nd pregnancy.  

ETA: "We don't even pull out hahah So its not like I would be surprised, We don't have sex often so its been about a month. Because of us not doing it often we don't even pull out or anything"