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Stay busy so as to keep your mind at ease, for a few hours a day at least. Yoga, crafts, anything you are interested in.


Exercise does wonders for the mind. When you are feeling up to it..

Quoting supermommy☠:" this is the hardest thing ive ever dealt with, my emotions are all over the place...sometimes im fine, ... [snip!] ... 3 days ago, all i want to do is get pregnant again to put back what i took away.. what can i do to get through this..?  "

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Maybe the place where you had it done has counselors?

Quoting lunch lady:" I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Maybe the place where you had it done has counselors?"

it was over 2 hours away...and they didn't seem very concerned for my feelings, just getting $

I'm so sorry you are having a hard time.

If you have a good friend you can have a long cry with sometimes it's good to just get all the saddness out. Try to remember that it was for a reason and you made a good decision for you and your family's future. Try to do something that "fills your tank" spiritually, whether it is yoga, or connecting to nature, or praying or being with people you love, or creating something with paint or crafts.... whatever makes you feel good, just spend some time on you.

It will get better!

<blockquote><b>Quoting supermommy☠:</b>" this is the hardest thing ive ever dealt with, my emotions are all over the place...sometimes im fine, ... [snip!] ... 3 days ago, all i want to do is get pregnant again to put back what i took away.. what can i do to get through this..?  "</blockquote>




Hang tight,wait it out. Your hormones are adjusting and it's normal to feel wonky.

I was 99.999% behind my own abortion, got it done as early as possible and knew I didn't want a baby. But I still wept, raged, vented and wondered " what if?".

You could try what I did.I journaled letters to my embryo,to myself,to no-one at all. I compiled a list of songs that I associated with each emotion ( loss and rage= Pantera"s "Drag the Water Some More," Metallica's "Until It Sleeps," Ani Difranco's "Lost Woman's Song") and I vented to my closest,most understanding friend and went on abortion -support web-sites.

Eventually, you heal enough to not think about it very often.

PM me if you ever feel like venting,and I'll be here for you.
Hugs. THIS is why I get pissed when people refer to abortion as the "easy way out.". Most of the time,ain't smurf easy about it.

try finding an abortion support group in your area and possibly some private therapy.....this isnt an issue u can ''redo'' by getting pregnant again but you can find some local support to help u heal. I know here in md some churches and crisis pregnancy centers offer free abortion counseling to help the healing process along.

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" try finding an abortion support group in your area and possibly some private therapy.....this isnt an ... [snip!] ... I know here in md some churches and crisis pregnancy centers offer free abortion counseling to help the healing process along."

i just signed up for an 11 week women's group for abortion that's suppose to help with healing...starts monday, hopefully this will help me

Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting supermommy☠:</b>" this is the hardest thing ive ever dealt ... [snip!] ... Hugs. THIS is why I get pissed when people refer to abortion as the "easy way out.". Most of the time,ain't smurf easy about it."

thats what i keep telling myself,
even after i had my son, my emotions were all over the place, i had pp depression and had to go on antidepressants,
i know thats its not JUST the abortion making me feel this way
my life is a wreck right now...
i just dont have anything going right that i can focus on, you know?
and my mind keeps going back to that day and i even changed my mind
but my friend who took me talked me back into it..
i just feel so much regret, i know i cant change it so i keep telling myself nothing can take it back so feeling this way wont accomplish anything

Quoting supermommy☠:" i just signed up for an 11 week women's group for abortion that's suppose to help with healing...starts monday, hopefully this will help me"

I will be praying for u !

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" I will be praying for u ! "

thank you, i need it..

Quoting supermommy☠:"

I felt the exact same way. I still find that im way more emotional that I was before, and I still keep wanting to get pregnant again to make up for it. Please feel free to PM me if youd like to talk xx im sorry hun.

Quoting Ry's Mom ♥:" I felt the exact same way. I still find that im way more emotional that I was before, and I still keep ... [snip!] ... I still keep wanting to get pregnant again to make up for it. Please feel free to PM me if youd like to talk xx im sorry hun."

thank you, it helps to know that im not the only one..!

Hey try getting yourself busy with whatever you like or whatever your hobbies are.
Like listening music, learning guitar, reading books, gardening etc...