|It is bad stop doing it|
|I do not see anything wrong with it if it works|
|I do not know|
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" My boyfriend does not really put my daughter to sleep unless she already almost k.o. So the other night ... [snip!] ... her songs that k.o usually while doing it and we kiss her trying to relax her so I don't know if its wrong. What do you think?"I dont really have any facts to put behind my answer, but i just dont see it being right to have her bundled up so that she cant move and let her cry. I would assume this would go along with causing detachment problems. When you're baby is with you they're supposed to feel safe. If you're just letting them cry and be upset they wont look to you for comfort as they get older. It will also hinder the bond. I dont think it was "abusive" I just dont think you should do it.
Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" Your daughter was crying the entire time. It's wrong. How old is she?"
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Shes a drama queen she crys for nothing and a long time even if you comfort her sometimes and she will ... [snip!] ... she wants to. And it was only for 10-20 mins and it was not the whole time it was off and on. And she going to be 9 months. "
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Shes a drama queen she crys for nothing and a long time even if you comfort her sometimes and she will ... [snip!] ... she wants to. And it was only for 10-20 mins and it was not the whole time it was off and on. And she going to be 9 months. "She's 9 months old? Seriously. She's not a drama queen, she's a baby.
Quoting Δ Ĺ ∂:" Yeah I think that's smurfed up. You guys created her bad sleeping habits, you shouldn't be punishing her ... [snip!] ... than anything (being restrained), you will probably make her claustrophobic as she gets older. Bedtime should be relaxing. "
Quoting Angie Mother of Boys:" I want to know who said it's okay to do this.. OP she's 9 months. Is probably closterphobic as stated ... [snip!] ... And 10-20 minutes of restraining any person at all, even an infant is insane. Unless it's a NB that enjoys being swaddled. "