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It is bad stop doing it
 
74% (25 votes)
I do not see anything wrong with it if it works
 
21% (7 votes)
I do not know
 
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posted 7th Sep
Quoting Katie. [♥]:" Just because he has his "way" doesn't make it right "
And maybe your ways are not right in different situations but its your child if your child is not being abused then who is to tell you your a bad mom or not doing things right. and like i said it never happened again and my daughter is back to her good sleeping ways.
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I have 1 child & live in Brentwood, New York
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" hell yes because you guys thought he was hurting her so i'm going to defend him if he has not harmed her i disagree with his choice but i stand up for the fact he is not abusive"

he is hurting her though   by not allowing her to move freely. if not physically, that is definitely mentally hurting her.
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" And maybe your ways are not right in different situations but its your child if your child is not being ... [snip!] ... a bad mom or not doing things right. and like i said it never happened again and my daughter is back to her good sleeping ways."
 
Why did you get on here and ask , if you didn't want people to tell you it's wrong?

It's wrong, It's absolutely ridiculous. I feel sorry for your daughter for the times she did have to go through that.

Get over it. Admit it's wrong and move on...
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I have 2 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" And maybe your ways are not right in different situations but its your child if your child is not being ... [snip!] ... a bad mom or not doing things right. and like i said it never happened again and my daughter is back to her good sleeping ways."</blockquote>




Well guess what it was abuse. And you are a bad mom for allowing it happen.
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I have 2 kids & live in Tallahassee, Florida
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."


Right, but if someone makes a topic ASKING if we think if it's right or not, we answer.
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Mami Ana:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" And maybe your ways are not right in different ... [snip!] ... to her good sleeping ways."</blockquote> Well guess what it was abuse. And you are a bad mom for allowing it happen."

I guess i'm a bad mom i can only live and learn and make things better no one is perfect. and to the other comment yes I asked and i'm not saying it is right i'm just trying to make it clear he was in no way trying to hurt her or hurting her I do not want you guys thinking I'm with a bad guy who abuses people and children.
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I have 1 child & live in Brentwood, New York
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I guess i'm a bad mom i can only live and learn and make things better no one is perfect. and to the ... [snip!] ... in no way trying to hurt her or hurting her I do not want you guys thinking I'm with a bad guy who abuses people and children."

But he WAS hurting her.  
Dang, why is it so hard to admit.
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I have 2 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" I guess i'm a bad mom i can only live and learn and make things better no one is perfect. and to the ... [snip!] ... in no way trying to hurt her or hurting her I do not want you guys thinking I'm with a bad guy who abuses people and children."</blockquote>



Get it through your head that he EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY harmed her. Abuse isn't only physical, you can't be serious here.
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I have 2 kids & live in Tallahassee, Florida
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Mami Ana:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" I guess i'm a bad mom i can only live ... [snip!] ... Get it through your head that he EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY harmed her. Abuse isn't only physical, you can't be serious here."
 
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I have 2 kids & live in Georgia
posted 7th Sep
Okay, i didn't know she was only 9 months old... what the hell is wrong with you? My son just turned ten months, sure his sleeping habits are still whacky, but i'd never ever restrain him until he screamed himself to a pitiful slumber.. my heart breaks for your daughter, as sad as that sounds.
Poor little one, being called a drama queen by her mama when she doesn't even know any better.. she is still just a little one, have a heart OP. Really, don't smurfing do that. It's just not right. She was probably so frustrated/scared.. probably wanted her mama, but you couldn't even comfort her.. they're only that small for so long.  
quotesmurfs?
I have 3 kids & live in Virginia
posted 7th Sep
Quoting j.a.c:" Okay, i didn't know she was only 9 months old... what the hell is wrong with you? My son just turned ... [snip!] ... frustrated/scared.. probably wanted her mama, but you couldn't even comfort her.. they're only that small for so long.  "

 
I used to get so frustrated with DD because she's smart, and she "knew" exactly what she was doing. Until she got old enough to know exactly what she's doing and now she laughs about it.
OP you and your SO have some serious growing up to do. Stop mistreating that poor baby.
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I have 1 child & live in South Point, Ohio
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Laneys*Mama:"   I used to get so frustrated with DD because she's smart, and she "knew" exactly what she was doing. ... [snip!] ... doing and now she laughs about it. OP you and your SO have some serious growing up to do. Stop mistreating that poor baby. "


Sometimes my kid won't sleep for the life of me, but I just suck it up and deal with it. It's not like i have a choice anyway hahaha. I often times want to ram my head in a wall.  But he's only ten months, so I know he doesn't know any better.
If someone was doing what her boyfriend did to my kid, i wouldn't have stood around like a dumb ass just watching. Probably get a swift kick to the face. 
I really hope that she takes everyone's advice and doesn't let it happen again. I feel awful for her baby, I really do.
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I have 3 kids & live in Virginia
posted 7th Sep
Quoting j.a.c:" Sometimes my kid won't sleep for the life of me, but I just suck it up and deal with it. It's not like ... [snip!] ... I really hope that she takes everyone's advice and doesn't let it happen again. I feel awful for her baby, I really do."


Trust me, mine is 13 months and there are still times she refuses to sleep, and she's had a pretty set sleep schedule since she was 3 months old. On those nights, which suck, I put her in bed with me for a while and let her "play", and then after a little bit I put her back in her bed. Just to break up her routine without letting her get down and have the toys and the lights to stimulate her anymore. If worse comes to worst, I'll let her lay in her bed and whine, but as soon as she starts actually screaming/crying I go get her. That's just not okay. My daughter has never, ever been restrained for anything besides things they've done at the doctors, and occasionally diaper changes when she first learned she could roll over and crawl away.
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I have 1 child & live in South Point, Ohio
posted 7th Sep
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" My boyfriend did not hurt he or hold her the smurf down he just carried her and she did not know how ... [snip!] ... IS NOT HARMING HER IF HE WAS HE WILL BE DEAD OR IN JAIL SO SHE IS NO BEING HARMED & SHE IS SO KIND AND NOT DETACHED FROM US"
Don't ask for opinions in the future, you obviously can't handle them. You said she would fight it and cry and try to get out of it and he would hold her in. That means the same exact thing. No one said he was like punching her in the face or anything but she's obviously expressing physical discomfort, that means it's wrong. DERP.
quotesmurfs?
I have 3 kids & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 7th Sep
You both are abusing that poor baby . Restraining her for her to go to sleep is so wrong, I feel so sorry for your baby. 
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I'm due July 4th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Windsor, Pennsylvania
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