Quoting Evelyn Lilianas Mama:" if you were looking for a "no, that sounds fine. he's being a good dad, and soon she'll fall into a really ... [snip!] ... was wrong, and now you're going back trying to stick up for him. i don't care how much you change your story NOW, it's wrong."

 
Even with the changes, she was crying and struggling... she fell asleep from exhaustion from fighting against being "restrained" for 20 minutes. Still not okay.

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'M NOT CHANGING MY STORY I'M EXPLAIN HOW EXACTLY HE DOES IT BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE THINKING WE ARE PUTTING ... [snip!] ... SEE HER CRY SO REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION IT HURTS I THINK IT HURTS ANY MOM TO SEE A BABY CRY EVEN FOR SOMETHING SMALL OR BIG "

Okay why are you screaming?...getting a little defensive are we  

Quoting Evelyn Lilianas Mama:" if you were looking for a "no, that sounds fine. he's being a good dad, and soon she'll fall into a really ... [snip!] ... was wrong, and now you're going back trying to stick up for him. i don't care how much you change your story NOW, it's wrong."

I'm not saying it not wrong that's why he stopped after a fight we had and i'm not changing my story i'm just letting you guys know he not a bad dad and does not abuse her she was not crying the hole time and he put no weight all i was saying if you guys agreed i was right for stopping it because he seem so normal about it because thats the way he was brought up and everyone is brought up differently

Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:" Okay why are you screaming?...getting a little defensive are we   "

hell yes because you guys thought he was hurting her so i'm going to defend him if he has not harmed her i disagree with his choice but i stand up for the fact he is not abusive

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'm not saying it not wrong that's why he stopped after a fight we had and i'm not changing my story ... [snip!] ... stopping it because he seem so normal about it because thats the way he was brought up and everyone is brought up differently "

Omg ! you said after 10-20 minutes of crying and fighting she finally went to sleep. Please quit changing your story. You are making yourself look dumb.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" I'M NOT CHANGING MY STORY I'M EXPLAIN HOW EXACTLY HE DOES IT BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE THINKING WE ARE PUTTING ... [snip!] ... SEE HER CRY SO REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION IT HURTS I THINK IT HURTS ANY MOM TO SEE A BABY CRY EVEN FOR SOMETHING SMALL OR BIG "</blockquote>




Ugh you are stupid. No one said we thought he was putting weight or pinning her down. How the hell would you like to be "restrained" for more a damn minute. Think about it dumbass, seriously. You are frustrated and clearly distraught and someone is going to restrain you? I freak out when someone tries to restrain me in any way. She's a helpless baby, think about it.

It doesn't really make a flying smurf at the man in the moon if he didn't hurt her. the point is he physically restrained her for an extended amount of time. She is a BABY! That must have been incredibly scary and confusing to her. And shame on you for trying to defend that behavior AND for calling a 9 month old a drama queen because she laughs when she cries. That is normal of all babies they are fickle (small attention spans and all) not dramatic. Hell I laugh when I am upset sometimes doesn't mean I am not still upset or that I am a drama queen.

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'm not saying it not wrong that's why he stopped after a fight we had and i'm not changing my story ... [snip!] ... stopping it because he seem so normal about it because thats the way he was brought up and everyone is brought up differently "

Some people are brought up to be Racist, Some are taught to abuse animals. ETC ETC. Does that make it okay? NO.

Quoting Katie. [♥]:" Omg ! you said after 10-20 minutes of crying and fighting she finally went to sleep. Please quit changing your story. You are making yourself look dumb."

Okay she did cry for that time period but it was not full 10-20 mins it was off and on

Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same.

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."

Just because he has his "way" doesn't make it right 

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" No one was holding her down he was holding her in his arms she just could find a way to lift her arms above her head"

okay, but she still could not move freely.

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."

whatever just tell him not to restrain her anymore, figure out a different peaceful way to put her to sleep.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."</blockquote>




Doesnt make it right. You are just as bad as he is for letting it happen and for calling her a drama queen.

Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" My boyfriend did not hurt he or hold her the smurf down he just carried her and she did not know how ... [snip!] ... IS NOT HARMING HER IF HE WAS HE WILL BE DEAD OR IN JAIL SO SHE IS NO BEING HARMED & SHE IS SO KIND AND NOT DETACHED FROM US"

  you said she cried for 10-20 mins, now it's just a few mins? & yes, it is harmful & detremental to her. I don't understand why you even made this thread. You clearly wanted everyone to agree w/ you from the beginning.