re: is it wrong to want a pregnancy that's from rape?

Quoting Cattails:" Thank you. That's a chapter of my life that I am just now able to cope with. I avoided males in general ... [snip!] ... 7 weeks along, if I remember correctly. I didn't track periods then, as I had only started about 8 months to a year before. "

oh wow, so you started kinda late if I read that correctly? I'm sorry you had to go through that  

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Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Oh I know I believe you. My mom was like a week pregnant (so 3 weeks) when she found out. I was 4 weeks so two weeks after the deed when I found out with this one. totally possible."

I was like this with my son, I was trying so hard for him that I noticed almost every little change in my body, and tested like mad till I saw the plus sign lol

Quoting Log,Ash,&Colt~23wks~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they ... [snip!] ... I think... For the most part...."</blockquote> You can't be 4 weeks pregnant if it only happened two weeks ago... Hmm"

yes u can.... most woman r considered ''4wks pregnant'' when they get a positive test which is 2wks after ovulation.......

I concieved on the 15 of October and got a positive test on the 31st of October, so it's possible. (I know the date because we don't get to it often, haha)

<blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they all seem to be like act like that is the only natural response. ... [snip!] ... yea I just have always thought my first would be a girl maybe it's more hope but that's what I think... For the most part...."</blockquote>



Wow... You're still very early in your pregnancy. Being excited about your baby is fine, it's still YOUR baby no matter how it got here. And not being able to handle t would be fine, too. I do hope you're getting some sort of counseling, though, just because pregnancy hormones can wreak havoc on your emotions and state of mind even when you're not dealing with something so traumatic. Good luck to you and your LO and congratulations.

Wanting a pregnancy that resulted from rape does NOT mean the woman should feel guilty in any way. It is 100% okay, and the baby will be no different from any other baby; sweet and innocent and loving.

Rape is wrong. Loving your baby is not.

One thing that IS wrong is for society to tell a woman she MUST keep a baby that resulted from rape. This has nothing to do with ANYONE's opinion except the mother's alone.

Neither choice is wrong whatsoever. In a situation of rape the woman has done nothing wrong, and whatever decision she makes will never be wrong. Women need to trust themselves in this decision and not let anyone try to interfere <3

I was raped but choosing adoption. I don't think i would be able to parent.

Quoting Sara Lovotti:" Wanting a pregnancy that resulted from rape does NOT mean the woman should feel guilty in any way. It ... [snip!] ... she makes will never be wrong. Women need to trust themselves in this decision and not let anyone try to interfere <3"