re: what do I tell my parents about the dad?

Quoting justayounggirl1:" he smacked me when I said no which sorta knocked me out. Which left me vulnerable I could really do anything i felt forced"

Have you gone to the police??? That does count as rape. And if it's rape well smurf happens and your parents can't be that mad. I'm sure every parent is a little upset if their child ends up pregnant at a young age but smurf happens. But if it's rape GO TO THE POLICE.

Quoting justayounggirl1:" he smacked me when I said no which sorta knocked me out. Which left me vulnerable I could really do anything i felt forced"

Ah, OK. I'm sorry for my last comment then. I just get all miffed when a girl has sex, consents, then cries rape. Did you go to the police at least?

Who all knows about this

I don't really want to have anything to do with him. I don't want him to know that I'm pregnant. I think he'd be worst. More like violent. He hasn't called me or texted me since then. He used to text me everyday and it's been 2 weeks and 2 days. I take that as a good sign I want to keep...

So do you plan on keeping your child or exploring your options ?? K think he should know

Quoting justayounggirl1:" I don't really want to have anything to do with him. I don't want him to know that I'm pregnant. I think ... [snip!] ... me since then. He used to text me everyday and it's been 2 weeks and 2 days. I take that as a good sign I want to keep..."

I can understand that... he may find out eventually though and then what? You won't have any evidence that he shouldn't be around the child and YOU will look like the bad guy for keeping it a secret. You can always tell your parents you don't know, then the worst they'll think is that you're a slut.

yea I plan to keep her. A part of me knows it seems terribly stupid to want to keep it but I can't help it I just do...

That's your child i totally understand that but I feel like he may reader to know ....why are you so worried about you parents?

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" I can understand that... he may find out eventually though and then what? You won't have any evidence ... [snip!] ... for keeping it a secret. You can always tell your parents you don't know, then the worst they'll think is that you're a slut."

i dont have any evidence now really. I have marks that could be from a fight with someone else or something. He knows practically nothing aout me. He just knows how I look so it's really odd he'd ever find out tbh...