I've gone through the whole birth process before but she came early and I didn't get to raise her, she is 4 going on 5 in march 2013... I'm 19 in January 2013 and my son will be here on the 20th of this month I don't know what to expect I'm happy and excited but also terrified that I'm gonna be a bad mother... My boyfriend kevin the father of my soon to be son is a first timer for birth and caring for a child I know he is super excited cause we are having a boy and he has a niece that is two in December that he helps take care of but I don't think it'll be the same because if the baby gets fussy we can't just give him to someone else any advice
Just take it one day at a time. Dont try to be super mom and then feel bad if you dont feel you are reaching those expectations. Just remember to be patient with each other (and I mean you and the baby and also you and your boyfriend). Its a learning process and it will come to you.