Quoting Brendals:" I have heard that it is considered rude to do it after the 1st child? I myself do not feel that way. ... [snip!] ... I also don't want family talking bad about me wanting to have another shower. Even if it's a welcoming home party or something."
Quoting Brendals:" Is it true you shouldn't have a baby shower for a 2nd child? Im having my 2nd child in March and my son ... [snip!] ... been 9years since her last one. I was told I couldn't have one since I had one with my first? But she had one with all of hers."