Pissed...

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Wait, you're pissed because your BD doesn't want you having access to his FB?








 

this is lame & immature.

Sounds like petty high school drama

Let him go. You don't need him

if you're not together you don't need his passwords for anything, not even as something as lame as facebook.

Sorry he hurt your feelings, but it'd be hard to believe that he would never be with another girl.

Why the smurf would you NEED to have his FB password in the first place?

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" Wait, you're pissed because your BD doesn't want you having access to his FB?  "

  

And your point is?
You're not together, and it's his facebook. He has the freedom to change his password if he wants.
You changed yours, so why does it matter?
I wouldn't want my ex creeping on my smurf either.

DH and I both have out FB passwords saved on our computers, but I have no idea what his is  



I'm not pathetic I spose.

Quoting megan003:" So today he finally changed his facebook pw. We don't hang out anymore & we barely talk, plus he's ... [snip!] ... his password obviously, for a reason. like obviously i know hes an smurf ..... but my brain can't freaking process it !!!"

Maybe he figured out you were going through his facebook. You had no right to be logging on to his facebook. You sound obsessive and somewhat stalker-ish. I would not want to be around you either.

This makes me so happy DH doesn't have a Facebook. So much stupid petty drama

Quoting megan003:" So today he finally changed his facebook pw. We don't hang out anymore & we barely talk, plus he's ... [snip!] ... his password obviously, for a reason. like obviously i know hes an smurf ..... but my brain can't freaking process it !!!"

While your anger seems bizarre in this situation, I think I can wrap my head around it. For you, the sharing of PWs was a significant indication of intimacy. And this changing of the PW is a very clear indication that the time of intimacy with this man has officially passed.

Anger is often an outward symptom of another internal emotion. In this case that emotion revolves around hurt and loss. Its something that you just have to accept and move on from. He's not being a dick. He's moving on.

You will get through this and get over it. Once you do, you will find it much easier to attempt to maintain a co-parenting relationship with him.

Good luck.  

you changed your password but expect him to keep his the same so you can access it and make sure he's not talking to other girls?
Are you 13? You aren't together, and just because you got knocked up doesn't mean he has to be committed to YOU.

Grow the smurf up, holy smurf.

Quoting ✰ johnna ✰:" While your anger seems bizarre in this situation, I think I can wrap my head around it. For you, the ... [snip!] ... over it. Once you do, you will find it much easier to attempt to maintain a co-parenting relationship with him. Good luck.  "

And if they don't exchange passwords, their relationship isn't intimate?

WTF ever happened to being your own person and privacy?

You don't give up your right to be an individual because you love someone.


That being said, I would probably flip my smurf if my husband even hinted that he wanted my password to anything.

Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" you changed your password but expect him to keep his the same so you can access it and make sure he's ... [snip!] ... aren't together, and just because you got knocked up doesn't mean he has to be committed to YOU. Grow the smurf up, holy smurf."

I'm gonna need your BG password BTW.