re: Pissed...

Quoting megan003:" And acting like bitches because idk how to handle what he did makes you guys so much better than me right ... [snip!] ... messed up about it. Because i actually thought when a guy says something he means it and that I wouldn't have to do it alone."

I don't think anyone is being a bitch. Just being honest.
I think you need to chill and leave him a lone. Let him know when baby is born and then the next move is up to him. He doesn't owe you anything all because you two planned a life together. At 25 people are still growing and maturing, especially men. Maybe he got scared, but if you keep acting like you own him and he owes you something then he isn't going to come back around for you or the baby.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" I'm gonna need your BG password BTW."

Gimme yours first, I gotta make sure you're not talking to anyone else but me.. ever.

Quoting megan003:" And acting like bitches because idk how to handle what he did makes you guys so much better than me right ... [snip!] ... messed up about it. Because i actually thought when a guy says something he means it and that I wouldn't have to do it alone."

When I was 21, my 25 year old SO (whom I'd been with since age 14) left me for a girl who was still in high school (she was about 17).. and he left me with a 3 year old.. and no way to take care of that 3 year old because I was a stay at home mom and he didn't continue to support me financially.

It actually happened one week before the kid turned 3, so I was selling plasma to buy food and dollar store birthday gifts.. The smurf sucked and I was seriously pissed off for a long time. But life goes on, I'm over it now, I can look back more objectively and I can see that he made a mistake in how he did it.

If he wanted out, he had every right to go, and though he didn't do it in the "right" way, I can understand and forgive that now (cuz smurf it was years ago)..

Anyway, I can understand why you're so upset, but this really is a learning experience.. and you just have to let go and try not to latch onto the little things for focusing the anger on (like the facebook pw.. that's just a small thing for you to be mad about because you're so hurt by the whole thing).