FML..

The past two weeks have really tested my strength. My bf broke up with me because he felt "tied down", I went into preterm labor, but they were able to stop the contractions and now I have to take it easy, bf and I decided to try to work things out by living separately and taking things slow like in the beginning, he went to a music festival where he did at least 7 different drugs, started hanging out with this chick he used to be close with and now has dropped off the face of the Earth. I do not recognize him at all. He lied to me about where he was going/doing on Friday, come to find out he went with this chick to a party and stayed with her ALL weekend(of which time I heard nothing). This morning, he came to my house, walked right in and woke me up so he could get his fishing stuff out of my car. He was super rude and right before he left he said "you're not the one who should be mad, I am. Go have fun with John.". I told him I haven't done smurf and he said "I'm not going to even talk about it". Then left. So he's ditching me because someone told him I did something when all I've ever done is dedicate my entire life to him. Even after he stole a $2,000 ring from my mother, even after he continually chose fishing, or getting drunk over spending time with me I gave him chance again and again. I just don't understand how you can love someone and treat them this way. Who gives up on "the love of their life" because of a smurfing rumor?

no. it is who really thinks they are someones "love of their life" when they treat them the way he treats you. you are better off. walk away. focus on your baby and you.

Dedicate your life to your child... not a man.

Quoting Miss Julie:" no. it is who really thinks they are someones "love of their life" when they treat them the way he treats you. you are better off. walk away. focus on your baby and you."

I just wish I could see that's what's best... I am so in love with him..

Quoting Fay♥10.12.12:" I just wish I could see that's what's best... I am so in love with him.."

been there. i know there is absolutely nothing i can say to you to make you see it. hopefully when you see the little one you are growing you see though.

Quoting Miss Julie:" been there. i know there is absolutely nothing i can say to you to make you see it. hopefully when you see the little one you are growing you see though."

I hope so.. For my daughter's sake I really hope so..

Once your daughter is here, you'll realize you don't want someone like that around your child.

Quoting ♥ cal's mama:" Once your daughter is here, you'll realize you don't want someone like that around your child."

I know she deserves a better dad, that's for sure.

Quoting ♥ cal's mama:" Once your daughter is here, you'll realize you don't want someone like that around your child."

I'm at his mom's house right now and she just keeps saying how I deserve better and that she's sorry he treats me so poorly. I've cried so much the last couple of weeks, I'm not so sure I'll ever stop crying. But all of his old friends(that he hung with when we first started dating) are on my side and there for me. I am able to go on because of all the support they are lending me through this. His BEST FRIEND won't even talk to him now cuz of what he's doing.

Hey there sweetie been there done that!!! I"m 32 weeks pregnant and BD broke up with me back in march!!! I was no more than 9 weeks!!!! It was hard i felt like everything was falling apart!! I didn't want to be alone or to even sleep!! I cried so much those first three months it was hard very hard!!! But somehow i knew i had to let him go and if it was meant to be he'd be back and if not to bad for him!!! I have a wonderful little girl in eight weeks!!! She's all i can think about and i realize that he's no good for either of us!! He only wants something to do with someone who is going to benefit him at the time and point he is seeming them!!! Don't let a "boy" get you down and out because i've learned!!! Boys will always be boys sweetheart!!!!   GL and i wish you the best

<blockquote><b>Quoting Fay♥10.12.12:</b>" I just wish I could see that's what's best... I am so in love with him.."</blockquote>
NEVER let your emotions dictate your actions.Emotions are to mutable.

And how the hell are you going to love a man that steals from your own mother?! Where is your loyalty???